I don't doubt that Russians engage in many of the same activities as we do in the West. What I am doubting is the cultural closeness you and a lot of people are assuming about everyday Russians. Simply taking your example, you mentioned video games and Steam. All of which are associated with young people, who do not have the political capital and influence of middle-age Russians, pensioners and seniors. There is a cultural divide in Russia between those born in the Soviet Union, and those who born either in the early stages of the Russian Federation chaos or long after. Vladimir Putin has managed to be handsomely elected time and time again. Does that sound like a leader who is being rejected by the majority of his populace? No. Perhaps younger people, but they are unreliable as consistent voters and don't have the political capital that Putin grabs from the large swath of Russia. The problem is that everyone assumes that Russia is just waiting for some to bring democracy and "freedom" to their nation, ignoring the complicated cultural and political attitudes that makes Russia different from the rest of Europe. An authoritarian and strongman like Putin could get elected in Russia in a way he could never get elected in Western Europe because he is in Russia. Even among those who dislike Putin, there has never been a credible alternative that can convince people to turn away and abandon Putin. Alexei Navalny had his appeal die substantially, and people like him rise and fail every election cycle. On top of his problematic issues on numerous issues like Ukraine. The West assumed he was the "savior" needed, ignoring that he is a Russian first and foremost. He will serve his country's interest long before looking at the West, and Putin will use that idea of "togetherness" to maintain his position of power. Putin will use the "victim complex" to rally his support against an overt move against his government, and "Russia" as a whole. Could he do that indefinitely if sanctioned and pressured? Not likely, but as I have stated before, nobody is going to risk going down that road. The EU and U.S. will maintain that fragile peace for as long as it can.