Can you explain how you got to "can't celebrate anything"? Also, is it your sincere belief that people who try to be sensitive towards those in financial distress are best categorized as "debbie downers"? Typically, I think most decent people try to remain sensitive towards the feelings and situations of others, especially so their friends, so it seems like kind of a weird take to advocate against that, right-wingers are the ones who would say "eh fuck 'em just celebrate and if they don't like it they are snowflakes" and we don't want to be like them.
Sure, they can be interesting - they can also be and often are a matter of life and death.
I was just thinking of scenarios like:
- Oh, you can't celebrate getting pregnant, SOMEONE MIGHT HAVE MISCARRIED. You don't know someone's infertility problems!
- Oh you can't celebrate getting a job, someone might be having trouble getting work
- You lost a bunch of weight. Good job? Or is someone having terrible time losing weight themselves?
A lot of things are a matter of life and death, health and wellness.
If you can't be sincerely celebratory about your own good fortunes, or even about the good fortunes of your close friends, I don't think it's so much about insensitivity but something worse. Yes, society is broken and there is incredible disparity, but if someone gets hives from the successes of others in their own social circles, then I don't have many good things to say about that person. It's close to crab in bucket mentality and also is probably a mental wellness issue (not "just" debbie downing, as I tried to might light of it a bit. Like it can be a serious problem and I know a lot of people here deal with depression + monetary issues).
Someone's success is not necessarily someone else's life and death. They don't have to be related, but that some people can't help but relate them, is as they say, the thief of joy.