Yup. Exactly my biggest issue with the MCU. It's louded as this big storytelling experiment, but when you poke at it, it all falls apart pretty quickly because there is so little consistency on a character level. Infinity War already lost me when Spidey, who in Homecoming completed the arc realising he's okay with being just friendly neighbourhood spider-man, who doesn't need to be an Avenger, starts immediatly eyeing that Avengers-role again, and getting it the minute after.
Don't get me wrong, I like the MCU for what it is, but I generally like the stand-alone(ish) stories way better because this issue isn't present. The potential of a big cross-over universe with a narrative line trough it all often doesn't amount to more than cameo's and cross-overs, while on a story level it's not developped all that well. The whole Civil War should have been a huge shake up for the MCU, resonating strongly in the next team-up film and generating drama, but Infinity War only handles it on a surface level, failing to force Cap and Iron Man to resolve their issue, and in Endgame they resolve it in a single scene, not really making it an issue at all really. We don't ever really explore what the shism means for Cap or Tony. We should've gotten a Cap-movie after Civil War exploring the fall-out, but we swiftly went to the Infinity War.
And the main line troughout all the movies are the Infinity Stones, which are mere McGuffins in stead of a real story thread.
And yes, it's baffling the MCU is praised for its storytelling, while the new Star Wars trilogy gets shit on for suposed inconsistancies, while TLJ is an absolutely logical follow-up on the storylines and character arcs set-up in TFA, without obvious inconsistancies at all (even Rey's lineage is adressed in TFA as unimportant, in the text, not even in subtext). You can point to Snoke or the Knights of Ren as stuff that got sidelined or seemingly not payed of (though I'll argue killing of Snoke was what the story and Kylo needed), but we still don't know what TROS will do (The Knights seem to make a return at least).
And the argument Star Wars is only two or three movies doesn't stand either, because the inconsistancies in the MCU are often also just between two or three movies.