That's what the toilet is for!Minus points for loaning money to a crush
Minus more points for getting vomiting drunk what a fucking shit thing to do as a guest let alone not knowing your own limits
Supposedly she had hella credit card dept. she has a part time job so money is a real issue for her atm.
Lmao
I have only finished page two, so I dunno if there was some reveal, but my guess is OP didn't pay his phone bill, so his provider cut him off, thus why the messages were undelivered.
Will come back to this once I have caught up.
She is living with her parents. Let them worry about that.Supposedly she had hella credit card dept. she has a part time job so money is a real issue for her atm.
The parents are helping for immediate expenses, she can either pay it off over time with consolidated debt or file for bankruptcy. She doesn't need 4k of your money now, I don't see the urgency.
Finger crossed he doesn't get her pregnant.Chick lets random vomiting drunks sleep in the same room as her baby in her parent's house? Just eat the $4k loss and be happy you're out of that situation OP.
What the fuck bro.
Trust me I didn't lol. I only texted her twice. The second was just to see if the delivered icon would pop up under the text. Which it didn't unfortunately.
Even ignoring the "socially awkward" part, these threads almost always start with "my friend/crush/partner/whatever stopped talking to me and I didn't do anything" and 200 replies later, we find out that the OP did, in fact, do something.What a boring thread. It's typical of these socially awkward kind of threads.
Makes comments, doesn't answer them or answers them vaguely. Keeps dropping more and more hints about other aspects but doesn't answer anything. If you don't want the advice or don't want to tell the story... well, I just don't see the point.
Just give it a week and see if she responds. If she doesn't, keep on living. It may suck but it is what it is. If she responds down the road, answer if you want.
I'm posting in a legendary thread because of this.
Also it's foolish to say how much money they have in their account. It could easily put a target on the OP back.Also why do you have 42k in checking as a single adult? Like 10-15k max. Put the rest in something that will grow.
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Bad idea! Period!UPDATE: if you guys want I'll keep everyone posted but ima give her a week to reach out to me with no contact. I'll answer more questions when I get the time! Talk soon
I got you, bro
Thread summary for those just joining us:
• OP has anxious attachment style.
• OP had sex with this person two weeks ago despite this person literally crying over their ex of six years. Oh, and she has a child with this ex.
• OP gave her $4,000.
• OP doesn't know not to give people $4,000.
• OP saw had an awkward encounter with her parents when leaving their house hungover because apparently Bowling for Soup was right and high school never ends.
• OP doesn't know about boundaries.
• OP got drunk and may have done/said something that caused them to get blocked. They know they threw up in her house, in her baby's room, and that may just be the beginning.
• OP seems to think this still may end well for them, thinks love can bloom, is wrong.
No we both went to sleep at 2 am. I was never alone with the baby. She slept with the baby on the bed while I crashed on the floor.So the Dad basically woke up with his daughters Drunk friend staggering out from his baby grandaughters room......did your friend atleast take her daughter out of the room before you went to sleep?
I mean wtf is wrong with her. Letting a drunk dude sleep with her baby.
Thread summary for those just joining us:
• OP has anxious attachment style.
• OP had sex with this person two weeks ago despite this person literally crying over their ex of six years. Oh, and she has a child with this ex.
• OP gave her $4,000.
• OP doesn't know not to give people $4,000.
• OP saw had an awkward encounter with her parents when leaving their house hungover because apparently Bowling for Soup was right and high school never ends.
• OP doesn't know about boundaries.
• OP got drunk and may have done/said something that caused them to get blocked. They know they threw up in her house, in her baby's room, and that may just be the beginning.
• OP seems to think this still may end well for them, thinks love can bloom, is wrong.