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My friend/Crush blocked my number…
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Any of y'all rich bois need a sugar baby? I'm available. 4k is the downpayment for these pants to come off
Don't lend friends money and expect to be paid back ever. If you care about being friends with them anyway.
Also +1 for possible troll thread.
Also +1 for possible troll thread.
edit: Not going to give financial advise. Your money is likely gone. You need to work on yourself.
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OP did you hit her with this
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Just leave it to the lawyer obviously if she was a friend you could be reasonable but at this point you could just let it go. Never let the law come between friends but since she gave that up hey, sue!
I just need 1k and I'll do sexting. Text only means I can be anything anybody wants🤡
As for OP, 4k is not an insignificant amount of money but it is also not big enough for you to keep wanting to get some resolution. Just move on.
This is all so silly but at least hopefully you can use this as a learning experience. Time to pull up the old suspenders. Have a crush but don't put any stake into it until it's official, don't lend money to people that you want to ever see again, don't get so drunk you puke in a toilet and get a warning from your boss, maybe don't hold a candle for someone clearly has some things to work out dealing with issues from a breakup.
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Well, apparently she isn't going to have your money until tax season anyway, so what's with the urgency?
Keep those text messages about the money though. You're probably going to need them eventually.
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Based on what the OP has offered to us in this thread, I don't think spending the emotional and physical energy to pursue is worth the $4,000. Clearly OP is not in need of the money. Why waste more time and energy to drag out what sounds like an exhausting relationship?
There are a lot of white collar well paid people here that skew things, 4k is absolutely a lot of money that you can't afford to just let go, or at least most people can't afford that
OP is just saying he doesnt need it because he still likes her. It's 10% of his entire net worth lol
43K in the bank and your first post sounded like you were a high school kid in a John Hughes movie who was one late shift away from losing their job at Baskin-Robbins.
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Tbh I'm just curious why she would just block me tho.. as you guys know, I helped her like no one probably ever would.
I'm white collar too. 4K is still a good amount of money. Anyone saying it is not is out of their mind.
I also don't think he's blocked. Sounds like anxious attachment style. 2 days is nothing.
You know where she lives so take her to court if she is not going to pay you back in a reasonable amount of time. I'd backup those texts too just in case, not just screenshot. You can also have an attorney draft a formal demand letter if you wanted to try and avoid small claims, but depending on the terms of the money you lent you probably want to give her some time. There's also a chance this is a misunderstanding. Maybe?
If it makes you feel better I used to work at a financial institution and someone financed a car for someone else in a similar situation. Then the third party stopped making payments. I think she was just a coworker he had a crush on. Guy had his credit ruined, didn't have the car, and had an embarrassing Yoshi themed email address.
It could be worse.
He shouldn't do this, but I don't see how this would impact small claims court.
If it makes you feel better I used to work at a financial institution and someone financed a car for someone else in a similar situation. Then the third party stopped making payments. I think she was just a coworker he had a crush on. Guy had his credit ruined, didn't have the car, and had an embarrassing Yoshi themed email address.
It could be worse.
He shouldn't do this, but I don't see how this would impact small claims court.
he has proof supposedly showing he lent 4k with an informal agreement to pay it back after tax season. she has until april.
Op ignore this person they're giving you awful advice, post them and we will help you.
You'll probably drive yourself wondering why and replaying events when in reality they blocked you and didn't bother communicating why. It's more a THEM thing than a YOU thing.
Good point. Still the OP needs to wait. No contact for 2 days to thinking about getting ghosted and stiffed for 4K is a big leap.
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Yup I have great feeling for her still. I just wanna know why she blocked me so I can clear my head and move on. the money is the last thing but I still expect it back.
The OP seems to only care about the money after the woman ghosted him. This has never been about the money but about OP being shocked and unhappy by the woman disappearing on him, because he has feelings for her. The money is a secondary issue that only became important because of the situation.
This is not a classic " I lend money and didn't get it back" situation.
This is a "I like this girl and she ghosted me so I'm regretting everything I have done for her" situation.
The OP is still trying to salvage the relationship and this is not really entirely about the money.
It is toxic for OP to continue to pursue any form of contact with this woman and any long drawn out battle to try to get back the 4k is just prolonging the situation.
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OP is either the most naive bastard I've ever seen or a legendary troll. This thread is bananas.
This is screaming 'Nice Guy' energy.
I'm gonna be honest with you: you got played and taken advantage of. It happens.
Let this be a lesson to learn about yourself, start working on your self-confidence and street smarts so that 1) you won't get fleeced like this again, professionally, platonically, romantically, whatever and 2) you'll have the strength to move on from bad/unhealthy romantic situations.
I'm still laughing at this post, it's a work of art
Based on the info provided we have no real way of knowing. You do imply that you were drunk enough that night that you might have acted in a way you don't remember, so maybe it's something like that. The money could be the reason or related but without knowing you two, we can't really say.
Might also be some kind of mistake but that seems like the less likely option, depending on the device I suppose.
The op just posted it's not about the money lol. This guy is all over the place.
Given these new developments and the feelings involved, I now agree with you.
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