I'm gonna start a new campaign. What's been your guys favorite ruler to start as? (the ones the game provides for you)
There's a stupid random event that will change the real father of your children despite your spouse never cheating on you and add a lover to her after the child already been born. In the game files: #An opportunity to turn an enemy's heir into a bastard.
What you're doing works against actual adultery but wont stop this random event from happening. You've just been lucky because it's been widely reported that this event happens at a very high frequency. I'm using a mod to delete this event from happening because it's honestly stupid.
I always make sure to court them properly after the wedding (or when i take over an heir that is already married). And after i started doing so, i haven't seen the adultery thing pop up again (at least for my wife). And judging by the congenital traits most of my kids inherit, it seems to work (i've secured herculean and beautiful, i'm now going after genius and maybe giant after that).
There's a stupid random event that will change the real father of your children despite your spouse never cheating on you and add a lover to her after the child already been born. In the game files: #An opportunity to turn an enemy's heir into a bastard.
What you're doing works against actual adultery but wont stop this random event from happening. You've just been lucky because it's been widely reported that this event happens at a very high frequency. I'm using a mod to delete this event from happening because it's honestly stupid.