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30-year-old man is being sued by his parents because he refuses to leave home
- Thread starter Syriel
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Imagine being such a loaf, and ill-equipped human that your parents have to evict you...
That is also the nicest eviction notice ever, with his parents trying to help the dude out.
That is also the nicest eviction notice ever, with his parents trying to help the dude out.
Guy sounds like a spoiled asshole. The type who, yes - at 30 will screech as loud as they can the moment something doesn't go their way.
Guess locking him out of the house while he's gone for a few hours doesn't work anymore? I assume he leaves the house sometimes right? Lock him out, out as much of his stuff as possible in the front yard, and call a 1 hour locksmith to change the locks.
I recently moved back home to PA and I found an apartment in town as soon as humanely fucking possible. I love my dad and get along with him, and I know he likes having me at the house, but living with him feels like I'm a high school kid again. And I've helped pay housing/food costs while living there the past month and a half. I hate feeling like a dependent child.
NY has some pretty tough tenant protection laws. You can't just put people on the street.
That is what parents are for... to help you out when you really need it, help you get on your feet if they can, and then like you did... your job is to get the hell out of there ASAP.
I lost my job about 10 years ago at 25... moved home because everything imploded. Lived there for 4 months while I got a new gig, and my parents really helped me out. I got the hell out of there as soon as I could, and paid as much as I could in terms of money for food and utilities.
My ex managed to stay in a loft for a few months rent free in Brooklyn because those laws are so strict.
Well...let's hope he doesn't become acquainted with squatter's laws, or else his parents may be in for a struggle.
https://www.cnn.com/2014/06/27/us/nanny-squatter/index.html
https://www.cnn.com/2014/06/27/us/nanny-squatter/index.html
Tenancy laws are complicated. I've seen multiple scenarios where people think tenancy laws don't apply to someone just because they're biologically related or because the person isn't paying rent. The parents will have to go through the same process to evict him as anyone else. Carefully read up on tenancy laws before you allow people to squat in your house without payment. Oh, and raise your kids correctly so that they aren't 30 and living at home with no life experience.
On a positive note, neckbeard hasn't murdered his parents and hid their bodies in the attic so he can keep living there rent-free.
Illegal. He'd be able to get back in with a quick call to the police.
Taking him through the eviction process is more permanent and binding. And it gives him puhlenty of time in the state of New York to get his shit together.
Would have been easier to change the WiFi password and make the living situation miserable for the guy.
I'm sure if he got a job and contributed they might be more willing to let him stay a little longer or help out with his new place if he actually sets himself some life goals because I'm sure they understand if he gets a low tier job it will be tough and they parents genuinely want their kids to be okay. He wasted his life so far, needs to give it a go now.
Sheesh, I just turned 22 and I feel bad that I still live with my parents but at least I have a job and plans to move out soon. Not to mention I help with household expenses and treat my parents to dinner once a week or so.
I think it is less about money and more about needing your 30 year old adult child to finally become self sufficient and being forced to go to ridiculous lengths to do so.
I have a friend like that and it's truly disheartening to see him taking this path.
He's now 30 and lives with his grand-parents ever since I know him, never finished high school and can't stay at any school job program because he loses interest after a few months. Then comes the time to find a job where the longest one he had, with a union and all kind of benefits, ended up after a year because he falsified a doctor's ticket to be off for more days.
He was jobless for months doing basically nothing and last week he found a seasonal job to help building pools in backyards, which he left after the first day because it was way 'too hard'.
I fear for him that the wake up call, when his grand-parents will force him to leave or die, may hit really too hard once it happens. I tried to tell him to kick his ass but then he gets hyper aggressive. Nobody in the friend circle want to recommend him either because he always choke and would end up ruining our inputs in our respective companies. :(
He's now 30 and lives with his grand-parents ever since I know him, never finished high school and can't stay at any school job program because he loses interest after a few months. Then comes the time to find a job where the longest one he had, with a union and all kind of benefits, ended up after a year because he falsified a doctor's ticket to be off for more days.
He was jobless for months doing basically nothing and last week he found a seasonal job to help building pools in backyards, which he left after the first day because it was way 'too hard'.
I fear for him that the wake up call, when his grand-parents will force him to leave or die, may hit really too hard once it happens. I tried to tell him to kick his ass but then he gets hyper aggressive. Nobody in the friend circle want to recommend him either because he always choke and would end up ruining our inputs in our respective companies. :(
Idk, seems weird to me. My dad was pushed out of his parents house at 19 when they told him they were moving and that they wouldn't have a room for him in their new residence, so he was on his own. Weird to me that you can forcefully stay in a residence that you don't own and don't pay any sort of rent for.
Imagine being parents and raising a kid (man) that acts like this at 30. Like, I can't tell if I was in that situation, I'd be more disappointed at my child or at myself
Would be on his side if he at least had a job and paid bills. Probably sit around all day looking at porn and reposting memes on reddit.
Legally speaking he isn't a tenant, since he's not paying rent. So they can kick him out anytime, theoretically.
I know these days it is pretty common to see people live with their parents well into their late 20's as long as there is a reason like saving for a house. My cousin, husband, and TWO CHILDREN are moving into my aunts house to try and save for a house in Chicago. I personally think that's a bit ridiculous but my aunt is mostly happy she gets to see her grandchildren more.
New York has different squatters laws. If I remember correctly, the son would have to prove he has a claim to the deed of the home, as well as have made improvements or maintenance to the home in order to be able to stay.
He's not a tenant though. There isn't a rental agreement. He might be able to make the argument that paying for expenses/chipping in could be construed as paying rent but he hasnt paid his folks anything.
Dunno why the parents just didn't call the cops on him and say he's trespassing.
Nightmare fuel. I truly hope to prepare my kid for the world so this doesn't happen.
I would feel like a failure as the parents or the child in this scenario.
That kid needs to get out and grow up.
Anybody think Michael has an account here?
I would feel like a failure as the parents or the child in this scenario.
That kid needs to get out and grow up.
Anybody think Michael has an account here?
Whose fault is that though? it seems the parents may have enabled this behavior for a long time. But also seems like while yes they maybe a bum, just throwing him out does nothing for anyone involved lol.
Kid? thats a grown ass man.
This is the main reason I'm so hesitant to have a kid, beyond financial reasons. I could do my level best, but I'm still adding yet another individual to the world with an intricate brain and infinite possible variations. I just know I'd crank out an asshole.
Having this mindset going into parenthood probably wouldn't help either. Imagine if the only way to truly piss off your dad was to pretend to be a Nazi.
Yup, probably sitting all that out
because he lives there and can't be trespassing at his own home. If his parents want to do that they need to evict him like any other tenant with a notice.
Hey everyone, I'm a 30 year old man and I still live at home so this hits home.
BTW, in before kill yourself, or any memes, have a long standing job, car, gf, savings, 401K. Just got fucked up with student loans and low pay in a brutal area price wise. Sure I could move to the country and be completely alone! :) :) :) :) No newphew, no friends, no family.. isn't that a great idea!!!!
BTW, in before kill yourself, or any memes, have a long standing job, car, gf, savings, 401K. Just got fucked up with student loans and low pay in a brutal area price wise. Sure I could move to the country and be completely alone! :) :) :) :) No newphew, no friends, no family.. isn't that a great idea!!!!
Many children arent selfish that is a learned behavior from guess who. adults. they are acting like an adult. im ranting here but imo we all need to stop infantilizing adult behavior like this kids dont act like this. kids probally would say okay and run away to a candy store.
this is just an undeveloped adult
As long as you and your parents agree to terms and you contribute something if they ask then it isn't a problem that you live with them. But if they want you to pay rent and you don't or they want you out and you won't leave, then it's a problem.
If anyone told you to kill yourself here they'd be banned in an instant. There's a handful of situations where living with your parents isn't the worst thing in the world, but the article shared in the OP certainly isn't one of them.
