Good read, feelsshortman :(
But yes, height and also bodytype can matter to an extent. Men who are mesomorphs are going to be more wanted overall than men who are endomorphs for example. Finding relationships and sex is just going to be easier. But I personally have NO issue when someone says "I prefer tall, athletic guys" or "I prefer short girls" on their tindr or grindr profile or something. It's honestly preferable to acting like you're a sapiosexual when you aren't, or rejecting someone on the premise that they have shittier character than you without receipts just because you don't want to admit they aren't attractive. You should just admit you have preferences and own it.
Anywho, Both tall and/or short can be sexy to many for a variety of reasons and is a harmless enough preference once you finally find someone who accepts your height (forgetting about short guy woes for a moment, what about really, really tall girls? What are they gonna do exactly? Never date a guy who's shorter? And if your very short you can't just date someone slightly taller?). And having an athletic body is definitely sexy, almost universally, and takes work to maintain, so you gotta respect that. Sometimes, yes, sexy attracts sexy, and that can be completely understandable imo. It's only shitty when someone tries denying it in favor of an unearned ego boost.
