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Your long time SO reveals to you they want to have live sex with someone else in front of you for your entertainment and pleasure. Your reaction?
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polygamy is not that uncommon so I would not be shocked or horrified, but it's something I talked about extensively with both my last 2 SOs early on and I always made clear it would not be an option for me. If an SO brought that up later on after knowing my opinion I'd assume there is something wrong with the relationship.
respect. it all depends on your beliefs in monogamy and human nature, but i personally feel like this is the ideal sort of relationship to be in (though actually achieving it is easier said than done)
I never once even hinted that I would be into that. Quite the opposite. We know of a couple that are into that, and we both are on the same page that it's not for either of us. I would never stop another human being from doing what they want. But I also expect the same. So it would be really odd if my SO turned to me and said it's for MY pleasure.
I get that people change, and if one day she wants that then don't bullshit me and say it's for me. You do you, just not with me. I'm too old for that kind of drama.
I get that people change, and if one day she wants that then don't bullshit me and say it's for me. You do you, just not with me. I'm too old for that kind of drama.
I think I may be ok if my GF was with another woman. Idk why that doesn't bother me but if it was a man it would. Then again I would probably ask if I could do that but with another woman, not a man.
I'd say no but not because i would be that upset if she did it, i just wouldn't want to be involved
100% communication is key here. I wouldn't be able to trust her again if she did something behind my back with no communication.
It wouldn't be for me no. I wouldn't get angry about it though. If that was what she wanted in a relationship I'd wish her the best and move on.
not even ol' mona?
OP didn't say it couldn't be family
My relationships are open, so having sex with others is really no big.
That said, I have no desire to merely watch. I'd be down to experiment with group things, but watching my partner with someone else would do nothing for me.
That said, I have no desire to merely watch. I'd be down to experiment with group things, but watching my partner with someone else would do nothing for me.
What if you get score cards and you get to raise them at the end?
Not being into one of your partner's kinks isn't necessarily a dealbreaker unless it's super important to the person.
It's probably very rare that the people in a couple are into exactly the same things. There's always going to be a few things that one person is into that the other isn't. If it's not vital to what that person wants out of the relationship, then I don't think it's a dealbreaker for the other to say no.
It's probably very rare that the people in a couple are into exactly the same things. There's always going to be a few things that one person is into that the other isn't. If it's not vital to what that person wants out of the relationship, then I don't think it's a dealbreaker for the other to say no.
It's really up to the couple what the boundaries are. I think it says a lot that she was open with you about it. She obviously doesn't want to go behind your back. I don't think there's anything wrong with discussing potential fantasies as long as mutual agreements/boundaries are respected.
BWAHAHAHA.
BWAHAHAHA.
I mean who exactly is meant to be getting the most out of this situation lol. You watching it or your other half receiving sexual pleasure from possibly another man or woman. If both agree then fine but not for me. The thought of another man with my partner would ruin me and destroy all my confidence. I would feel inadequate about myself for the rest of my life, and that I wasn't good enough.