We've officially hit the point in the generation that we encountered around 2011/2012 where the current batch of base consoles just isn't cutting the mustard for the ambitious projects that developers are trying to squeeze onto the hardware. The Xbox One X and (to a lesser extent) the PS4 Pro are not the target platforms out of some bizarre neglectful ideology, they're just the only consoles that are moderately strong and able to handle these games properly without major visual or performance related concessions.
I'm not saying that the performance here or in games like Control is acceptable - it really could improve with further optimization - but we are definitely in the sunset period for these consoles and their dated tech. Games like Control and Man of Medan are the Far Cry 3 of this generation, games that are targeting hardware far above what's in the current set of base consoles and the only remedy is more powerful hardware or even more drastic visual concessions.
It's a tricky thing, you don't exactly want to suggest that people upgrade to an Xbox One X or PS4 Pro now that the actual successors are right around the corner but unfortunately, it's clear that development efforts are not focused on the base consoles anymore and releases like this are going to be damn near standard from here on out. In any case, the real solutions to this problem release around the holiday season next year.