Tbh were not *positively* obsessed with sex enough in America, IMO. Sex is amazing, modern technology/medicine has made it safe, and it's a fantastic way to up your mood, relieve stress, and strengthen a bond with someone. America is so prudish and negatively obsessed with the concept of sex instead of the nature and benefits and pleasure of it. I wish our culture was more sex positive, more nudity positive, more into sexual education that reaffirms LGBTQ, and more of us focusing more concern over media indulgence in something like violence and white supremacy instead of nipples or penises. People should feel comfortable talking about sex if they want to, and artists should feel comfortable expressing sex and nudity in their work if they want to—sex is part of life, natural and most people do it. Now, exploitation is never okay, and it is okay to hold and understand both truths: exploitation is never okay AND artists and people should be able to enjoy positive portrayals of sex. This reminds me, why is Portland one of the only places in the US I can legally see fully nude gogo dancers at a gay club? The fact that nudity is still so legally taboo in most places is weird.
I had sex twice before lunchtime today and it was great. Now I'm catching up on work. Sex is in life and around us and it shouldn't be a taboo or something to feel to hide, whether in life or in games or movies. Because art can be either from fantasy or reality, and sex occupies both.
Nothing in this post is meant to pressurize or persecute aces and people who can't/don't have sex. I just mean for those of us who do, it shouldn't be so negatively treated. And, since art imitates life, and life has sex in it, it should be permissible for artists to display nudity and sex as well (without exploitation or breaking the law).