(am I making too many threads?)
Background: a while ago (sometime mid to late last year I believe), I started messaging this guy. Tall, good-looking, nice upper-body, etc.
After we started messaging, I found him to be a little......intimidating, lol. He knew exactly what he wanted, kept pressuring me to set up a time for us to get together, and I was just a tiny bit overwhelmed.
I guess he got tired of me saying "I can't tonight" and said that I "seem flaky".
I took offense (because I thought we were getting along well) and told him that was BS. I forget what his exact response was, but he never apologized. Call me Mr. Sensitive, but I just wanted an apology. I stopped responding to him and then he blocked me.
About a month ago, he tried to get me on Tinder and I ignored him
Fast-forward to yesterday morning. A profile catches my eye.
and I message him and he responds back
TF??
One thing I don't do is flake. If we set a time, you better believe I will be there or will message you ahead of time if I can't make it. Yes it's just a hook-up, but I still like to act like a decent human being (despite the behavior of others).
So I'm thinking, "Who in the world is calling me a flake??"
After I don't respond for a while, he just sends his face pics.
Oh. Him. Ugh.
Well, like I said before, he's good looking and I'm not as intimidated by him anymore and I guess all is forgiven. So why the hell not?
So yesterday I was having a pretty busy day and propose 3 different meet-up times: something quick in the afternoon, something around 12 or 1am at night, or sometime on Saturday.
He picks night. Cool.
My day is coming to a close and it's a little after 11 I see that he hasn't messaged me. So I message him.
No response.
I'm free for the night so I figure I'll just get ahead of schedule and drive to St. Pete (20 mins away). I just walk around the city for a bit and shoot him a message.
Still no response.
So I figure I'll just hang around in St. Pete until 1 and then leave.
And of course, he's still MIA.
I'm not mad, but just a tiny bit aggravated that he's such a hypocrite.
A little later, he's says he fell asleep
I totally call him out for being a hypocrite and he's still apologizing.
Like I said, I'm not pissed, but just a bit annoyed. I'm wondering if I should give him another chance. He apologized which I appreciate. Dunno how sincere it is but....it is what is I suppose.
Background: a while ago (sometime mid to late last year I believe), I started messaging this guy. Tall, good-looking, nice upper-body, etc.
After we started messaging, I found him to be a little......intimidating, lol. He knew exactly what he wanted, kept pressuring me to set up a time for us to get together, and I was just a tiny bit overwhelmed.
I guess he got tired of me saying "I can't tonight" and said that I "seem flaky".
I took offense (because I thought we were getting along well) and told him that was BS. I forget what his exact response was, but he never apologized. Call me Mr. Sensitive, but I just wanted an apology. I stopped responding to him and then he blocked me.
About a month ago, he tried to get me on Tinder and I ignored him
Fast-forward to yesterday morning. A profile catches my eye.
and I message him and he responds back
TF??
One thing I don't do is flake. If we set a time, you better believe I will be there or will message you ahead of time if I can't make it. Yes it's just a hook-up, but I still like to act like a decent human being (despite the behavior of others).
So I'm thinking, "Who in the world is calling me a flake??"
After I don't respond for a while, he just sends his face pics.
Oh. Him. Ugh.
Well, like I said before, he's good looking and I'm not as intimidated by him anymore and I guess all is forgiven. So why the hell not?
So yesterday I was having a pretty busy day and propose 3 different meet-up times: something quick in the afternoon, something around 12 or 1am at night, or sometime on Saturday.
He picks night. Cool.
My day is coming to a close and it's a little after 11 I see that he hasn't messaged me. So I message him.
No response.
I'm free for the night so I figure I'll just get ahead of schedule and drive to St. Pete (20 mins away). I just walk around the city for a bit and shoot him a message.
Still no response.
So I figure I'll just hang around in St. Pete until 1 and then leave.
And of course, he's still MIA.
I'm not mad, but just a tiny bit aggravated that he's such a hypocrite.
A little later, he's says he fell asleep
I totally call him out for being a hypocrite and he's still apologizing.
Like I said, I'm not pissed, but just a bit annoyed. I'm wondering if I should give him another chance. He apologized which I appreciate. Dunno how sincere it is but....it is what is I suppose.