I don't mind you, anyone really, not wanting to join our foreign escapades, as you shouldn't, however joining NATO or not doesn't really mean you would be forced to join. Afghanistan you might have felt obligated to some degree to if you had been a member as we evoked the treaty then but Iraq as a counter example was basically nothing but countries wanting a seat at the table for contracts after we went in and was "open" to anyone with some NATO members taking part and some not. Libya was a NATO led intervention and something like only half the NATO members took part in that, and Sweden did as well despite not being a member of NATO.
Of course how strong your country would be to resist that drumbeat from the United States every time we wanted to intervene somewhere, I dunno, I know nothing about Sweden's politics but joining NATO doesn't mean you'd be forced to join every NATO led mission as really almost everything the US/UK/France do together is going to be a NATO led effort and use the NATO command structure even if most of the members have told us to fuck off and don't come along.
Of course how strong your country would be to resist that drumbeat from the United States every time we wanted to intervene somewhere, I dunno, I know nothing about Sweden's politics but joining NATO doesn't mean you'd be forced to join every NATO led mission as really almost everything the US/UK/France do together is going to be a NATO led effort and use the NATO command structure even if most of the members have told us to fuck off and don't come along.