IMO of course
Given that our society/media make such a fuss about the whole topic and many relationship problems revolve around the quantity of sexual activity, I always felt that sex isn't all that great or important.
I'm even in an open relationship and do not use the opportunity that often. Being a male gay, getting prepped for the act is often quite the hassle and in addition, it never feels as good as I'm anticipating. This is basically my main gripe: I have the wildest fantasies but the actual act in reality is often just ''quite good'' and this is not because the other one is bad but rather since sex is often awkward (even with familliar partners) and the feeling - while nice - is not that life-changing experience many make it out to be. If the act is taking too long, I will even get bored and hope for it to be done soon. In fact I'm totally okay with having sex every two months since I feel that a mere masturbation suffices and is more hassle free.
Whenever I'm having sex with my SO, I feel that cuddling would be so much better.
Is sex an important aspect in your life or do you have similar feelings?
Given that our society/media make such a fuss about the whole topic and many relationship problems revolve around the quantity of sexual activity, I always felt that sex isn't all that great or important.
I'm even in an open relationship and do not use the opportunity that often. Being a male gay, getting prepped for the act is often quite the hassle and in addition, it never feels as good as I'm anticipating. This is basically my main gripe: I have the wildest fantasies but the actual act in reality is often just ''quite good'' and this is not because the other one is bad but rather since sex is often awkward (even with familliar partners) and the feeling - while nice - is not that life-changing experience many make it out to be. If the act is taking too long, I will even get bored and hope for it to be done soon. In fact I'm totally okay with having sex every two months since I feel that a mere masturbation suffices and is more hassle free.
Whenever I'm having sex with my SO, I feel that cuddling would be so much better.
Is sex an important aspect in your life or do you have similar feelings?