Animal Crossing bugged me for the first couple days but finding out you can shake trees for branches infinitely ended up making me not care anymore, crafting takes like 5 seconds if you tap A while doing it.
I sort of have the opposite feelings as you. BotW was annoying the first few days, but it became tolerable in the end. Five seconds to craft a tool and up to half a minute shaking a tree for branches (it can take a bit for the trees to give 'em up)...you craft enough furniture and other stuff! Why the tools? Absolutely the dumbest design choice in an otherwise enjoyable game. I await the day I forget to customize my watering can and it explodes.