You've done well for yourself, and I'm sure you're in your 20's or 30's with relatively solid health- use this to your advantage and work on yourself. Try adapting some kind of exercise into your life or weightlifting- it can go to great lengths to improve your mental health, as well as improving your physique. Take some classes to learn a new skill or language. When the world opens up again, you'll have that much more of yourself to work with. You've got money to spare which removes a lot of the barriers from trying these things. You still have so many possibilities and routes to meet new people.I make $90K a year as a software engineer. I work remote in my home. With $30K in investments.
You've done well for yourself, and I'm sure you're in your 20's or 30's with relatively solid health- use this to your advantage and work on yourself. Try adapting some kind of exercise into your life or weightlifting- it can go to great lengths to improve your mental health, as well as improving your physique. Take some classes to learn a new skill or language. When the world opens up again, you'll have that much more of yourself to work with. You've got money to spare which removes a lot of the barriers from trying these things. You still have so many possibilities and routes to meet new people.
I've never had more money than now, but I've also never felt so alone and depressed.
No girlfriend, no real friends (I'm an immigrant in the US, my "real" OG friends are back home and it's been hard making true American friends).
You can have as much money as you want, if you can't share experiences with anyone (friends or lover) it's worthless. Money buys freedom at most that's it.
You mean dating apps? I've tried, no luck. And without flexing or throwing myself flowers at all, I am not ugly or anything, to my own surprise I've had a lot of girls/guys saying I'm hot, and I workout every single day so I'm extremely fit. But I don't know dating apps just don't work.
You don't sound like an asshole, don't worry, these kind of things can affect people of all levels. A therapist can be a great avenue for someone in your position right now, take advantage of an opportunity not many can afford to.
This.money does bring some level of comfort in families though. I want to say finances are the number one thing that couples argue about
So you're wealthy and you're hot and you can't find a date? What is the problem exactly? Are you shy?
Unless you have a terrible personality, people probably see you as a very desirable bachelor, you should work on what is wrong on your end.
I don't fucking know. I've been obsessed with a girl that don't have time for me (or anyone, she works three jobs and have classes). So I'm being heartbroken by someone I've never really dated (which I know is stupid as hell, but I have a crush).
And I just think I haven't meet many girls. My friend tells me every time he puts me in his Instagram stories he gets a lot of girls (and guys lol) saying I'm hot and so on, so I don't know. I just don't meet the people (also sometimes I'm not interested into the girls).
I can't even imagine how much stress my family of 5 would be under if we weren't financially stable. I'm stressed even being in a good position because of how far it can all tumble down.money does bring some level of comfort in families though. I want to say finances are the number one thing that couples argue about
Well I hope for both your sakes it's not true obsession, and just find out something you don't like about her to shatter the illusion lol, it's not that hard.I don't fucking know. I've been obsessed with a girl that don't have time for me (or anyone, she works three jobs and have classes). So I'm being heartbroken by someone I've never really dated (which I know is stupid as hell, but I have a crush).
And I just think I haven't meet many girls. My friend tells me every time he puts me in his Instagram stories he gets a lot of girls (and guys lol) saying I'm hot and so on, so I don't know. I just don't meet the people (also sometimes I'm not interested into the girls).
You're someone making 90k a year with 30k in investments, decent shape, young, and your friend says he gets a lot of comments on IG posts with you in it saying you are hot.I don't fucking know. I've been obsessed with a girl that don't have time for me (or anyone, she works three jobs and have classes). So I'm being heartbroken by someone I've never really dated (which I know is stupid as hell, but I have a crush).
And I just think I haven't meet many girls. My friend tells me every time he puts me in his Instagram stories he gets a lot of girls (and guys lol) saying I'm hot and so on, so I don't know. I just don't meet the people (also sometimes I'm not interested into the girls).