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MrMephistoX

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Oct 25, 2017
2,754
Found this article to be pretty much spot on particularly for me: Millenials Aren't job hopping or disloyal they're adapting to the new normal. Corporations that don't give two flying shits about tenure.


https://www.forbes.com/sites/larrya...ng-young-people-are-5-things-to-keep-in-mind/

So what do you think it is about us millennials? For me it's all about growth and seeing what happened to my dad: brilliant at doing complex finance by hand pushed out by younger workers and lack of aptitude with excel and losing his house in the 2008 downturn.

To me if you're in the same job regardless of how good the company it's not a good thing. Employers are not loyal to you so why stick around if you're not getting growth opportunities after 2-3 years?

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Amory

Member
Oct 27, 2017
1,161
When I switch companies I tend to get more money than I would if I stuck at one.

It just makes sense financially.
 

null_

Member
Oct 27, 2017
262
Gen Xer here, and the longest I've been in a job is maybe 4 years? Typically 2 years and I've been ready to jump... I also work in Tech so it's not uncommon.

Edit: I thought I should add is that it's for the same, obvious reasons... there's no loyalty on either side, so why pretend?
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
2,754
When I switch companies I tend to get more money than I would if I stuck at one.

It just makes sense financially.


Yep! I'm leaving on Friday and starting a new job on Monday because of just that. Once the pixie dust wears off even a dream job begins to lose its luster if you're underpaid.
 

Septimus Prime

EA
Verified
Oct 25, 2017
8,500
Breadth of experience is valuable, but yeah, I also think the real reason is stagnant growth and salary.
 

Sunster

The Fallen
Oct 5, 2018
10,074
Yea we don't want to work at the very first job we get straight out of college for 2 decades then get fired and lose everything while having a very limited experience set on our resumes.
 
Oct 27, 2017
6,535
I don't blame millennials.. especially with the lack of job security and low wages out there. Always look for the best opportunities for yourself.
 

Kevers

The Fallen
Oct 29, 2017
14,639
Syracuse, NY
I worked for Target and while they always treated us well when it came to snacks,parties,or catering the break room during the holidays but they switched the overnight position from 11pm-6am to 4am-8am and lost 70% of the team and treated the people who stayed like shit. The people who stayed after the change were expected to make up for all the people who decided to leave, we had 15-20 people doing the work of 40-50 people in 4 hours less than we were used to. After 3 years of being there I came down with a stomach illness that had me in and out of the doctor, even with notes from the doctor I still eventually lost my job because I called in one too many times.

I'm still pissed off at how that place changed, I was there for 2 years at 11pm-6am and absolutely loved the place. I had a lot of friends and our managers were cool as hell. Everything changed as soon as they decided to start shifts at 4am. That's the incident that it eventually clicked in my head that I need to worry about myself and my health instead of worrying if they'd be upset if I called in because I was puking and shitting my brains out.
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

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Oct 25, 2017
2,754
Yea we don't want to work at the very first job we get straight out of college for 2 decades then get fired and lose everything while having a very limited experience set on our resumes.

It's the exact opposite of how I was brought up and also taught in business school. There are literally people at my job who have been in my same rank for 25 years. My parents would say that's great! I say ick! One of my colleagues got unceremoniously dumped last week 2 years before retirement.
 

Mass One

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,229
I literal only work for money. So if someplace else is offering more, I find it stupid to stay.

I even hopped with my internships aswell. My friends did it with their internships too.
 

null_

Member
Oct 27, 2017
262
Yea we don't want to work at the very first job we get straight out of college for 2 decades then get fired and lose everything while having a very limited experience set on our resumes.

The point of the article is that it is NOT a millennial thing but a young person thing... like I said in my first post, I've been doing the same thing and I'm in my ... uhhh <cough>... upper 40s
 

EraldoCoil

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,550
Cali
I've usually stuck to a job around 2-3 years. Each new job I've takrn has been for more money.

I've learned from my dad what loyalty to one place gets you, and hes worked for the same place for 30 years.

Edit: I'm 31
 

Deleted member 11626

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Oct 27, 2017
4,199
At 28. I was a shift manager at one job for about 2.5 years. No growth beyond that and I had my son on the way, so I left. Spent 2.5 more years at a much higher paying job, then they laid me off after Trump's tax cuts. So I say go where you want. Companies don't give two shits about you. Pensions are virtually nonexistent and you can roll over your 401k. If you can't move up then move out.
 

flyingorion

Member
Dec 4, 2017
360
I've had about 20 jobs in the last 2 years. That does include temporary, seasonal, and gig jobs. I'm honestly used to having a constant feeling of instability. All of the best ones turned bad. One company lost a contract and so we all lost our job. Another shut down its business in my territory. One place basically used me for my piano playing skills for a week and then dropped me even though patrons liked my music. I've had several merchandiser jobs, but the hours can be very unstable. Had the retail seasonal jobs at either minimum wage or a little above.

Yeah, there are a million jobs out there if you're in the right area. Job hunting is a constant for me. I'm not going to break my back on some faulty ladder stocking some heavy box with a job that pays $9 an hour and offers no insurance. I'm not going to put up with a manager threatening me with violence after I refuse to drive across town to just work another 30 minutes on a 4-hour shift to help out. I'm not going to be yelled at by an angry and entitled baby boomer customer because they can't get a refund on an item they bought a half year ago.
 
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cdyhybrid

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Oct 25, 2017
17,422
Give people better pay/benefits and give them regular raises and people might stay.

You get what you pay for.
 

DigitalDevil

Member
Oct 25, 2017
231
We look for people to stay. It costs a lot to recruit, hire and train new employees. We don't want you to leave. We have growth opportunity if you are passionate, driven and hard working. I am an executive without a college degree... the opportunity is there. That being said, there are way more job hopping millennials than those that are willing to commit. People that do that are extremely unattractive to many recruiters. If I see more two jobs in five years I am not going to call you. Have you ever considered that the companies that don't care if you are disloyal are some of the same companies that are disloyal to their employees?
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

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Oct 25, 2017
2,754
I need to start doing this.

I'll admit I got freaked out after my first job out of school lost a big client and my director and I both got canned so I spent about 6 years with one company (promotions every two years) and then left for a huge increase after I finished my masters. People that stuck around all got laid off with a few exceptions when the company merged. I've been in my current role for 3.5 years so hardly disloyal but there's something to be said for a boss that believes in you being laid off due to restructuring and then stifling your growth. So off I go on Monday to my new higher paying job that builds on my experience and profession!
 

Amory

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Oct 27, 2017
1,161
We look for people to stay. It costs a lot to recruit, hire and train new employees. We don't want you to leave. We have growth opportunity if you are passionate, driven and hard working. I am an executive without a college degree... the opportunity is there. That being said, there are way more job hopping millennials than those that are willing to commit. People that do that are extremely unattractive to many recruiters. If I see more two jobs in five years I am not going to call you. Have you ever considered that the companies that don't care if you are disloyal are some of the same companies that are disloyal to their employees?
I suppose it depends on the industry but I've heard hiring managers say the opposite too, that young people who stay in one place too long start to look like there's something wrong with them so they can't get another job

And I'm not an advocate for changing jobs every couple of years "just cuz". If you're happy and fulfilled and moving up, obviously stay. But it's a good thing for workers that that isn't the expectation anymore and you can get away with shopping around
 
Oct 25, 2017
5,159
China
Gen Xer here, and the longest I've been in a job is maybe 4 years? Typically 2 years and I've been ready to jump... I also work in Tech so it's not uncommon.

Edit: I thought I should add is that it's for the same, obvious reasons... there's no loyalty on either side, so why pretend?
Same here, I don't think you can pin this on on millenials. My first two jobs I stayed at way too long as I was still believing the loyalty gets rewarded crap. The best run I ever had was a boss job hopping and then hiring his old team for the new company's he moved too twice.
 

BDS

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Oct 25, 2017
13,845
Companies don't care about their workers anymore, so workers don't care either. Loyalty is a two-way street.
 

Griselbrand

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Oct 26, 2017
3,251
Longest I stayed at one place was 5 years but it was a place where I actually did have some great mobility having started from an entry level position. I've been at my current place for about three years and I'm considering a move in a few months.
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

Banned
Oct 25, 2017
2,754
We look for people to stay. It costs a lot to recruit, hire and train new employees. We don't want you to leave. We have growth opportunity if you are passionate, driven and hard working. I am an executive without a college degree... the opportunity is there. That being said, there are way more job hopping millennials than those that are willing to commit. People that do that are extremely unattractive to many recruiters. If I see more two jobs in five years I am not going to call you. Have you ever considered that the companies that don't care if you are disloyal are some of the same companies that are disloyal to their employees?

Don't get me wrong I'd stay if there were a path to growth and I hadn't seen some weird political stuff happening with even execs getting laid off recently under the radar but people love this company so much that manager and director slots hardly ever open up and when they do it's usually someone from the outside. Just in my experience.

3.5 years is a long time but I'd actually be happy to come back once I level up with my new title and experience so I can make decisions instead of following orders.
 
Oct 25, 2017
26,560
I wish I did this, been at the same job 4 years and I make much less than my friends who hop around for the best offer. And hopping around still entails like a at least a year at a place. Boldest things I saw was a girl who left right after taking a promotion and another dude who left after three months. Good for them.

My current job brought me and a friend on for $10 an hour 4 years ago. She peaced out for $15 and healthcare at another place 6 months later. I got a raise to $10.50 and was bought on full-time. End of the year, she's at an even better place with a salary, whereas I worked my way up to $12.50. Few years later she's at an even better place and I was offered a raise to $15 just last year, I asked for and got $16. And now I just feel stupid.

Looking to be out of my job by the start of next year. I got bills yo.

And what sucks is, my cost of living is pretty low so I never thought what I made was very little, but then you see the other moves people make and it's like, wow ... I'm really behind.
 
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A Grizzly Bear

The Fallen
Oct 27, 2017
2,104
I had an interview for a job where they brought up the fact that I usually don't stay at a job for more than 3 years. I gave the honest answer that it's been better for my career and growth. His reaction was the most snide, patronising "sure" I've ever heard. Didn't bother following up on that one. Companies need to realize they need to have solid career ladders and compensation to keep talent.
 

Miletius

The Fallen
Oct 25, 2017
1,257
Berkeley, CA
We look for people to stay. It costs a lot to recruit, hire and train new employees. We don't want you to leave. We have growth opportunity if you are passionate, driven and hard working. I am an executive without a college degree... the opportunity is there. That being said, there are way more job hopping millennials than those that are willing to commit. People that do that are extremely unattractive to many recruiters. If I see more two jobs in five years I am not going to call you. Have you ever considered that the companies that don't care if you are disloyal are some of the same companies that are disloyal to their employees?

Seems like an attitude of the past, honestly. We've been living with 20+ years of stagnant wage growth. People know that they only way they can get ahead in life is either to be in a very lucrative industry or to switch jobs on the regular. Companies should be asking what they can do to retain trained talent rather than the other way around -- and the answer is actually quite simple. Treat them better and make compensation generous and they'll never be disloyal.
 

CreepingFear

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Oct 27, 2017
16,766
It's hard, but you have to realize that there is no loyalty. I have a great boss and decent benefits, but I'm no longer growing and I want to get something for having a CCNA. I will not be my mother, working for a company for 39 years to just get dumped and lose her pension.
 
Oct 27, 2017
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I'll admit I got freaked out after my first job out of school lost a big client and my director and I both got canned so I spent about 6 years with one company (promotions every two years) and then left for a huge increase after I finished my masters. People that stuck around all got laid off with a few exceptions when the company merged. I've been in my current role for 3.5 years so hardly disloyal but there's something to be said for a boss that believes in you being laid off due to restructuring and then stifling your growth. So off I go on Monday to my new higher paying job that builds on my experience and profession!

Ya, I've been at the same place for a while and after checking out places like zip recruiter, I am def underpaid.

Couple that with the announcement by the boss that all OT is being eliminated(boss is a huge trump supporter who def made a killing with tax cuts, figures he would fuck us), I have more incentive than ever to leave this place.

I've been loyal to this dude, but loyalty means shit if you got bills to pay and are underpaid compared to your peers at other places in similar positions.
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

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Oct 25, 2017
2,754
Seems like an attitude of the past, honestly. We've been living with 20+ years of stagnant wage growth. People know that they only way they can get ahead in life is either to be in a very lucrative industry or to switch jobs on the regular. Companies should be asking what they can do to retain trained talent rather than the other way around -- and the answer is actually quite simple. Treat them better and make compensation generous and they'll never be disloyal.

Last straw for me was when they took away our snacks and sparkly water! ;)

You can't survive on 2-3% annual increases in some markets like LA and expect to have a retirement cushion.
 

Shokunin

Member
Oct 25, 2017
6,158
The city beautiful
My mom taught me this when I first entered the job market. Longest I've stayed at a job is 3 1/2 years (I only stayed that long because they let me work the last 2 year remote).

Go get yours, people.
 
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MrMephistoX

MrMephistoX

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Oct 25, 2017
2,754
It's hard, but you have to realize that there is no loyalty. I have a great boss and decent benefits, but I'm no longer growing and I want to get something for having a CCNA. I will not be my mother, working for a company for 39 years to just get dumped and lose her pension.

I honestly think you hit the nail on the head; a big part of my desire to jump when growth slows is what happened to my parents. Dad got laid off, mom had to get a real estate license while dad applied like crazy for 2 years only to have to drive a fucking school bus until he got into selling supplemental insurance to Medicare patients.

Are european and Canadian corporations this bad too?
 

Daitokuji

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Oct 27, 2017
2,602
I'm in my mid-30s and have never worked at the same company for more than about a year and a half.
 

SugarNoodles

Member
Nov 3, 2017
8,625
Portland, OR
It's pretty special for people to tout "you're paid what you're worth" nonsense and then turn around and blame someone for taking a new job to make more money.
 

HyGogg

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
2,495
Yeah, until there's a market correction, and companies return to paying for employee retention (which they should because their failure to do so is costing them a lot of money), this is the only thing that makes sense to do.

When a vacant position needs to be filled, companies have to pay market value for available talent. But they don't really give raises beyond inflation rate anymore so particularly early on in your career if you work a job for a couple years you're considerably more valuable than when you started and your only way to cash in on that is to quit.

With unemployment as low as it is, it's ridiculously easy to game this. I know people that have changed jobs three times in a year and doubled their income.
 

Emmz

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Oct 28, 2017
404
I find job hopping in the software industry to be interesting and frustrating. I've worked at the same place for almost 5 years and I have become very, very good at my job. I've had a lot of people join my team many years older and with more experienced than me who have hopped in and out after a year or two, likely making more money than me when they started, and likely making even more after they left. All the while being completely fucking useless at their jobs for a significant portion of their tenure compared to me, a much younger and "more inexperienced" developer.

My company has treated me well and I genuinely haven't seen better prospects for myself (though that may soon change). In spite of this, it's laughable to me how the "meritocracy" of the industry works. I have a few friends in a similar boat, though they wizened up and finally started playing the game a bit more. I simply haven't seen someone really achieving mastery in a complex and difficult job like working on software in less than a year on a given project regardless of their starting level of experience. The idea of paying them more because they have the balls to jump around being bad at their jobs blows my mind.