i love a happy endingEven without the decorations, it's still a pretty dumb looking tree. But yeah, reminds of that gay couple that incorporated their TERFiness into their wedding wovs and then ended up divorcing later on
Lol what the fuck?
You go over to this person in your family for Christmas and this is the first thing you see. WDYD?
Unfortunately it's brain rot that is irreversible.
But the other side is "noisily" and "loudly"!
Is problematic really a modern term? I remember that being used back in the 90s.
Is problematic really a modern term? I remember that being used back in the 90s.
Sad to see the state of that article tbh..
Yes, but this is someone being harassed for using birth control to manage painful periods. In this case, seems less about TERF/TERF adjacent brainrot targeted towards trans women and more TERF brainrot lending itself to poisoning the 2nd/3rd wave feminism well in an attempt to realign it with reactionary misogyny. But also transphobia.So, a note of caution.
Reclaiming your period was a big part of early feminism, and it carries on to this day. Across multiple cultures and religions, women on their period are hugely stigmatised as being "dirty", "foul", and "tainted" to this day. Elevating your period to something more than just "piss and shit" was, and is, absolutely a real thing by woman of all stripes to this day. It's something that very strong, pro-trans feminists I know still believe in.
If a woman views her period in that way then more power to her - we shouldn't be jumping down someone's throat because of that. It's when they use that view to exclude women who don't have periods that there is a problem.
EDIT: also, go look in any cafe in a middle class area and you'll see multiple women's groups talking about stuff like this.
That kinda is what happened though. You have someone preaching about sacred flow in response to another woman giving advice to others on how to stop their periods to avoid the painful effects of endometrioses.If a woman views her period in that way then more power to her - we shouldn't be jumping down someone's throat because of that. It's when they use that view to exclude women who don't have periods that there is a problem.
That kinda is what happened though. You have someone preaching about sacred flow in response to another woman giving advice to others on how to stop their periods to avoid the painful effects of endometrioses.
Referring to something you know is causing pain to someone as being sacred, directly to them, is just trying to shame women for doing what they can to avoid being in agonising pain. Suggesting they have lost touch with nature or womanhood if they dislike or resent their period.
That's why it blew up. It's not plucked from a 'be confident about your body' discussion it's mocked because the woman in question is using the idea of periods being sacred to shame someone for not wanting them and educating others who feel the same.
Not caring about twitter is solid, but it's what sparked all the posts. Trying to remove it to focus on this forum in a vacuum doesn't work as the context things sit within is important. By and large people are piling on her for her mention of sacred flow in the context of her saying it to someone who has endometrioses and as a result stopped her periods to save her a great deal of pain. The 2nd item on your list was a post by cis woman and her own view of them so, idk, not something I'd push back on. The first one, fair point as it is a term that's around. The last one depends though, because 'thing' in this context is the idea that periods are so sacred that women shouldn't stop them or be educated on how to stop them, to avoid significant amounts of pain. That not considering it sacred detaches a woman from nature and womanhood. Which is nonsense.I get that. But on *this* forum, the posts I'm responding to state:
1) The term could only be made up by a man
2) Periods are nothing more than piss and shit
3) The entire thing is nonsense
That's wrong. Mock the woman for her horrible beliefs, and the way she uses those to hurt other woman. But mocking the very notion is just a bit ignorant of what a lot of woman feel *and* how periods are still thought of in multiple culture and places across the world.
I don't care what twitter is doing tbh, but in this place I do feel we should just be aware that issues like this are complex and not to attack to the basic notion as happened. There's way more stuff we can go after here after all! ;_)
Nah it was a good element to raise so people are aware, it's an important topic that doesn't get much spotlight here. Glad you did.Yeah that's fair Kyuuji . I'm just a bit quick off the mark with some of this because there's still so much work to be done around destigmatising periods and the ways some women chose to do that gets attacked a lot.
I've heard many, many women talk about hating their periods, and even in some cases, admitted to be jealous of trans women who don't have periods at all (which could be triggering in some cases, since some trans women do want all the typical things that come with being born with female sex traits).I've kind of wondered before hypothetically if they made a medical procedure or medicine that could eliminate periods more or less completely (or rather the negative effects), like would the GC crowd refuse it?
I'd like to think, and this is from a guy's perspective, as much as periods in their mind "define womenhood" the majority of women would instantly sign up for that.