Why would you ever feel shame?
Is it cause you cant dance? Have a small penis? Say things like "Oh golly gee!"...
Lol
Haha, what other race feels shame due to what others of their race have done or do?
Its not that. The problem is that alot of the 'isms' (racism/sexism) exist not because of the ride or die haters, but because those on that side don't care.
Take something like BLM; we wouldn't have reached this point if in the initial spate of media coverage mainstreet America was like, "Hey, its fucked up. We need police reform, what if it was my kid". Local municipalities feel pressure, bad cop gets prosecuted snd convicted, done, we move on and watch our CTE football games in peace, lol.
Reason why that didn't happen was because of a lack of empathy. We can make the argument that all the pieces involved aren't cardholding KKK racist, including the killer cop. But it wasn't hard for them to effectively subconciously toe the party line that the POC was dangerous because the cop pulled em over and they are always right(as if they never got a bullshit ticket) they aren't racist because they like rap music, etc.
I look at it like being a man, I will talk to my girl friends and they will make a blanket statement that 'all men suck' and I don't take it personal but I know what they mean. Being a man is awesome, but its not hard to see how the game can be rigged in our favor. That requires some self reflection and it doesn't have to go directly to guilt. Problem is that when people feel that guilt itch they get defensive and we are back to the beginning again.
At the end of the day the reason much of the evil exists in the world isnt because of moustache twirling victims but because we generally stick our heads in the sand, which is why confrontation is unfortunately a good counter even if it offends.