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Dec 22, 2018
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Anecdotes and the will to believe.

Pretty much. The negative anecdotes stick with folks even when they're the exception rather than the rule and don't reflect the experiences of the vast majority of people.

When I had to go on work restriction due to an injury, I was in limbo. I didn't miss enough time to qualify because I didn't get hurt enough? And then in the pt office someone was talking about pretending to still be hurt so they could use their disability check to host a BBQ. I've also had someone trying to sell me food stamps in a parking lot.

Some of the eligibility requirements for these programs are so damn arbitrary. It's incredibly frustrating. Just to throw out another anecdote related to my state's unemployment comp program, I'm aware of a woman in her late 50s who developed breast cancer and was denied benefits because the treatment made her too physically weak to perform the phsyical requirements of her job. She was a nursing assistant and needed to be able to push, pull and lift up to 15 pounds. So here we have a state program that's willing to pay a 25+ year old white, suburban college dude $15 an hour to do nothing for six months because he's technically physically capable of working (and simply chooses not to), but isn't willing to pay a 55+ year old black woman suffering from cancer jack shit because she's no longer physically "able and available" to do the work . . . even though she's still willing to show up to the job to do what she can. I like to think there was something else for her out there outside of unemployment comp, but the fucking inequity of it all reminds me that its not enough for us to simply create these programs. We have to do our best to make sure that they function as intended, and that the people who REALLY need them actually have access to them.
 

Nida

Member
Aug 31, 2019
11,268
Everett, Washington
My bestie actually handled all the formalities (completing paperwork, phoning the attorney, etc.) for me the first time I applied because I couldn't emotionally handle it. What I was mostly tasked to do--besides necessary interviews, such as with my attorney and Social Security, and appearing before the judge--was find and regularly visit doctors, therapists, and psychiatrists to analyze me and help establish for the court the severity of my mental illness. (The other dimension of my case was the record of my suicide attempt and hospital/recovery center stay.) Just handling this responsibility was tremendously taxing on my emotional state, and one which I never want to go through again.

If I do find it within myself to give disability another shot, it would only be for my palmar fibromatosis. Hoping the process for a purely physical condition won't be nearly as stressful to my equilibrium.

It really shouldn't be. I'm legally blind, and all I had to present was a letter from a low vision doctor stating my condition and the severity.

I had to fill out paper work and all that of course (Well my girlfriend did) but I was not required to see another specialist. Unfortunately the situation with mental illness and SSDI seems severely behind the times.

As long as you have something diagnosing you with palmar fibromatosis the process should be much easier. You can also apply for SSI once you get SSDI, and you will automatically be signed up for Medicare/Medicaid. Depending on the state you might also get cash benefits and food benefits.
 

Nida

Member
Aug 31, 2019
11,268
Everett, Washington
Well, not in the Confederate state of Georgia, I won't. But I do appreciate the encouragement and other info you've provided. I'll share it with my family and see what they think.

Yeah I didn't in Louisiana either. I was shocked when we moved to Washington and got it in the mail.

If you ever have any questions feel free to reach out.