As a married man, sure a one-off is fine but if she/he is scrubbing through the phone, then that should be ringing alarm bells for what they're actually looking for and can't just go by your word. You're still your own person, they are still them. You're not symbiotically part of them like a Borg where every thought and feeling is shared.As a married man, I don't see why you wouldn't share your phone. What's mine is hers and vice versa.
Sure; it could go in all kinds of directions.
I didn't act in any way that you just said I did. I literally said "there's an issue" lol
No, your first post literally stated there should be no issue with them going through your phone when that comes with its own set of issues.
So you can stop being dishonest now.
Right, that would likely involve there being an issue.
Letting them go through with it could possibly solve the issue pretty easily though lol
Letting them go through with it could possibly solve the issue pretty easily though lol
The phone screener choose that woman's call because it's absurd and makes for great radio not because it's ok/normal.
Of course not.
I don't think it's about that. I think it's about LOOKING for something to be mad about. I've had incidents in the past where someone has gone through my stuff because they wanted to find an issue. Hell, my own mother when I was a kid tossed my room because she didn't like the girl I was dating. Found some personal letters that were written to me, and then called that girl's parents. It's a violation of privacy and a show of distrust. Even if you're married you're entitled to a bit of privacy. Every person is.One thing I'll never understand is that people treat their tech like phones more private than their own actual private parts... this never made any sense to me. A person can allow for physical intimacy but their phones, PCs, and such are way more privatized. If a person can let their SO see them naked and do things, then a person can also let them into their life more than just 100%. If you truly have nothing to hide, then show it.
Also, you never know if letting your SO use your tech can open for more conversations and discussions of the things they discover. They could be into the same things as you, but you both just don't know that, because you don't let go of the pride of "independence". Your SO is not your parents, your SO is someone you're sharing yourself and your life with.
And as a disclaimer, this isn't something I've gone through personally. It's actually more of something I noticed from society. This has always mind boggled me.
I was listening to the radio and a woman called in and said she and her boyfriend have a rule that at any time once a week they can ask for each others phone so they can go through it and see all the phone numbers and text messages.
Would you agree to that? Yay or Nay? Added a poll.