An advance welcome to Eorzea! We'll be happy to have you!
Quick tip to get out of the way: Make sure you get the FREE TRIAL. Don't make the mistake of picking the "starter pack" or whatever it's called as that'll lock you out of the free trial. Happened to me on PS, so I had to use my other PSN account to play instead.
- I don't really have anyone I know to play with, so I'd be doing what I can solo. I know being an MMO and all, you're encouraged to play with others and such, but how far could I reasonably get alone?
This was, well,
is still me today. The game can be played solo all the way through. You'll occasionally have to join random players in dungeons and raids, etc. but the matchmaking is good and it'll be like a "get in and get out" thing. You don't even have to talk whatsoever, though saying hello and/or GG is always appreciated, of course.
The best part though, is that the team have been slowly rolling out updates to the old dungeons to make them even more solo friendly, teaming you with A.I. party members instead of matchmaking with random players. It's a system that was introduced in Shadowbringers and has now been added to all of ARR (base game) and I believe most of Heavensward.
- How long am I looking at to finish the first part of the game? I've read that pretty much all the expansions eclipse the first bit of the game in quality, so I'm really looking forward to eventually getting there. I guess I want
to know how much of a time investment I'm looking at in this part?
Unfortunately... yeah, ARR is gonna take quite a while. Maybe 40 to 50 hours...? It's not that bad though, I enjoyed it myself even though I wanted to reach Heavensward so badly the whole time. It'll pay off well in future expansions too. Worthwhile investment for sure.
Take your time though. No need to rush through it as the free trial is unlimited play time. If you're feeling burnt out or just not motivated, take a break. The game was literally designed to not require players to be constantly playing, the team is well aware we've all got lives, jobs, and other games we want to play.
- I haven't really touched an MMO since my mid teens or so, and even that was really only casually. Is there any sort of do's and don'ts or general etiquette I should keep in mind?
Be kind and patient to others. Which is applicable everywhere, really. If you're playing a healer though, make sure to DPS too! Feel free to let others know if you're new to a dungeon or a role. Most players are nice and patient, especially to sprouts. "Sprouts" is an affectionate (well, I like to think of it affectionately anyway, haha) nickname new players have cause of the icon you have until you reach the latest expansions and/or reach a certain playtime.
Otherwise, yeah, just say "hi" or "GG" when running dungeons with others. Though it's also perfectly fine not to. If you're not a tank, don't pull mobs for the tank, let them handle it. Use your AoE's when necessary.