It's funny how when I read the thread title I instantly knew what the first two negatives would be lmao.
Xbox OS and Xbox controller are both good. It's just that they're both different from PlayStation in several and important regards so it's hard to switch or get used to one after the other. I ran into the same problem with PS4 back in the day back when I bought one after being used to Xbox. With time you'll get used to the OS, though maybe because I rarely used the PS4 I will admit I never really did get used to the controller or got over the cramps it gave me.
Xbox OS and Xbox controller are both good. It's just that they're both different from PlayStation in several and important regards so it's hard to switch or get used to one after the other. I ran into the same problem with PS4 back in the day back when I bought one after being used to Xbox. With time you'll get used to the OS, though maybe because I rarely used the PS4 I will admit I never really did get used to the controller or got over the cramps it gave me.