Honestly, the part that sucks the most is that outside of Final Fantasy, there really aren't many examples of "big" JRPGs anymore, so games like XC2 being the "biggest" non-FF JRPGs and just being INFESTED with otaku bullshit in every possible corner means that if you like the idea of JRPGs but don't want to constantly be assaulted by a bunch of fetish nonsense...you have no options. No alternatives.
It wasn't so bad when there were lots of RPGs to play so you could just avoid the gross creepazoid shit and not even have to worry about it, but nowadays...there's just nothing. You either wait five or six years for an FF to come out and until then you have nothing to play, or you have to suffer this kind of shit. And nobody seems to care anymore - ESPECIALLY not the people making the games.