Grats yo.Well, I changed my pic and bio. I also got dick tonight. I'm attributing my success to this website and its members. Well done, team.
What did you end up changing your pic and bio to?
Grats yo.Well, I changed my pic and bio. I also got dick tonight. I'm attributing my success to this website and its members. Well done, team.
Another job well done ERAWell, I changed my pic and bio. I also got dick tonight. I'm attributing my success to this website and its members. Well done, team.
Well, I changed my pic and bio. I also got dick tonight. I'm attributing my success to this website and its members. Well done, team.
I've basically given up on these apps
Went on two dates and nothing seemed wrong and then nothing
Ya done good. Video game plus sitting on couch doesn't a good profile make.Well, I changed my pic and bio. I also got dick tonight. I'm attributing my success to this website and its members. Well done, team.
What instructions? People on these apps waste your time most of time, like if I go on a date with a girl from school I know she likes me and I don't have to worry about her disappearing for no reason.What does that have to do with the app? Did it gave you bad instructions during the dates or smth?
What instructions? People on these apps waste your time most of time, like if I go on a date with a girl from school I know she likes me and I don't have to worry about her disappearing for no reason.
Bruh what I'm saying ain't that complicatedThe way you said it seemed like the dates went bad cause of the app...
How do you know the girl from school isn't also on tinder? Or isn't 't also going out with other people?
The people you're talking to are afraid your behavior will mirror what you've displayed in this post.Are people really too much of a pussy to just say they don't want to hang out or meet, instead of agreeing to meet after having a lot of convo, and then blocking/deleting you? It's literally happened 5 times to me in the last 2 weeks. I'd say it's me given the amount, but it literally never gets to the point of actually learning anything about me before I get blocked.
Ugh.
EDIT: pussy is a strong word. was just heated when posting.
Bruh what I'm saying ain't that complicated
Fact is people on these apps aren't great with commitments or actually being adults and IRL people won't just agree to a date for the lols and will usually be straight with you.
The people you're talking to are afraid your behavior will mirror what you've displayed in this post.
There are too many nutjobs out there. Ghosting is fine. In the past week on tinder I've ghosted 4 girls and have been ghosted by the same amount of girls. Part of the game
If everyone behaved that way it wouldn't be an issue, but many, if not most people on dating apps aren't like that.If someone isn't interested in my I don't care. It'd just be nice to let me know so I don't think I said something wrong. Or maybe I did say something wrong, but if you tell me so I won't mind and I'll part ways.
Yep most people on these sites have an angleI've found people on grindr (the app OP is using) that there are certain users just curious on the meat market and just wanting some nudes pictures. Know of others making fake profiles to see if their partner is faithful, multiple profiles of the same person trying different ends like getting certain info or pictures; and other dishonest shit from bored individuals. I appreciate if you are selling your body at least say so in the profile -_-.
Congrats on the sex OP.
Are people really too much of a pussy to just say they don't want to hang out or meet, instead of agreeing to meet after having a lot of convo, and then blocking/deleting you? It's literally happened 5 times to me in the last 2 weeks. I'd say it's me given the amount, but it literally never gets to the point of actually learning anything about me before I get blocked.
Ugh.
EDIT: pussy is a strong word. was just heated when posting.
Yup! I was nice once and that girl turned out to be the biggest psycho/stalker ever. First person I ever had to block her phone number. If I would have ghosted I would have never had to deal with any of the nonsense. Lesson learned.If everyone behaved that way it wouldn't be an issue, but many, if not most people on dating apps aren't like that.
"Did I do something wrong?"
"Um I was just being nice it wasn't a proposal"
"Wow so you don't find me attractive so you won't even have a conversation? Shallow"
"You're ugly anyway. Bitch."
There are so many things people are trying to avoid.
I once matched with someone, so I was about to say hello but for some reason the woman just blocked me.
I have never met her before, I have never talked to her before and I can't understand why she blocked me but eh it doesn't matter, I ended up deleting the app off my phone as most of the women there weren't serious.
Seems harsh.
I dont know why you think you are owed anything?
If this was M Seeking F this would be a fucking bonkers attitude.
I think it is more complex than that. On one end, yes you should not invest yourself too much in dating apps because ghosting is a thing that just happens. On the other end, rejection isn't a great feeling. Especially when it happens repeatedly without any explanation. Overtime that can definitely lead to feelings of confusion, frustration and wondering if there's something wrong with you. Even more so when you're used to a pattern of rejection and then something promising comes along raising your hopes only to end in ghosting. You can say it's pixels but they are real people and for some reason or another they are lining up to reject you.I mean....
Conversely I feel that people that get upset by being ghosted by someone on a dating app that they've had a few digital convos with shouldn't take it so seriously. It's just pixels, mang.
Oh believe me you're preaching to the choir. I have been ghosted tons (who hasn't?), but have also had some dates here and there. (for context, I gave up online dating and apps years ago).I think it is more complex than that. On one end, yes you should not invest yourself too much in dating apps because ghosting is a thing that just happens. On the other end, rejection isn't a great feeling. Especially when it happens repeatedly without any explanation. Overtime that can definitely lead to feelings of confusion, frustration and wondering if there's something wrong with you. Even more so when you're used to a pattern of rejection and then something promising comes along raising your hopes only to end in ghosting. You can say it's pixels but they are real people and for some reason or another they are lining up to reject you.
So like, I agree that you should not take online dating too seriously but at the same time I think it's ok to feel bummed that you were rejected or ghosted tons or whatever as long as you don't take that out on people and acknowledge that it's a regular thing that people do and doesn't necessarily have anything to do with you so you can move on from it.