Do you ever feel like you don't fit in with your group of friends?

[Deleted member 22901]

all the time. i'm the only person in my friend group who isn't cis or straight. i have a hard time talking to most of my friends.

 

[Akira86]

sometimes i wonder if it is my friends who could be better, or is it me that could be a better friend?

 

[Melody Shreds]

I don't fit in with anyone

 

[Doctoglethorpe]

Never fit in anywhere. Only reason I had "friends" in high school was because my house was a convenient place to smoke weed after school and of course I always had some to share.

 

[Deleted member 10629]

Yes, and a couple of them are going to get married soon so I guess this will only go downhill.

 

[Samanosuke Akechi]

I'm honestly not a fan of having friends. Just more ppl you're expected to talk to or hang with and I much prefer my alone time rather than spending it with others. My fiancé is the only person I really enjoy being with.

 

[ToddBonzalez]

I can definitely be introverted to a fault at times. Got in to a habit to saying no to social invites due to wanting to be alone. I started to realize I was being invited to group activities less and less because of it :(

 

[Jombie]

I haven't had a group of friends in 15 years.

 

[Martinski]

Group of friends? Unfamiliar with this term. What does a "group of friends" entail?

 

[KillLaCam]

They wouldn't be your friends if you didn't fit in. Even if you don't think you do, the fact they wanna be your friends means that you fit in enough. You gotta take the initiative sometimes

 

[NekoNeko]

i grew away from my old group of friends, they all still hang out together but i haven't really spoken with most of them in years. no ill will though.

 

[Pwnz]

I stopped drinking 2 years ago and fortunately my friends were real and not addiction buddies. Well, mostly, I don't do winery tours and other activities that are simply lame sober.

I did have a group of friends I would hangout with sometimes but they're really intense - that social group only kind of thing or you can't be apart of a chat group. I just stopped hanging out, that sort of control and group consensus is extremely unhealthy.

 

[DragonSJG]

I'm not sure/don't think so. Most of the time, I hang out with them for watching JoJo as a group but they have invited me to to other things and during the JoJo hangout, they are receptive and engage with me and I do contact them via FB. I think they might have other group chats and part of me kinda wants to ask to be invited, but not sure if it's too clingy. Granted, i did join them last year, so I dunno

 

[Mathieran]

Well I don't really have friends anymore, just work buddies. But throughout most of my life, no I don't really feel like I've belonged in any particular social group.

 

[Coyote Starrk]

As soon as I have friends I'll let you know.

 

[The Vathlonian]

I must have some kind of problem fitting in that I can't see because I have no friends. 0.

 

[Rackham]

I wish I had friends that did nerdy stuff like board games and dnd. All we do is watch movies together. Eat and drink. That's it.

Lucky assholes.

 

[julia crawford]

Hmmmm not as much as before, but it's mostly because I'm older than them.

 

[pixelation]

What friends?

 

[Poppy]

tbh even back when i was in school i felt this way

ive never really had a friend who i felt like both our interests and our feelings meshed well

maybe just a me problem though

 

[Zorg1000]

I'm married with children while all my close friends I grew up with are still single with no kids so i have naturally grown apart from them. We still talk pretty regularly and still have the same tastes in things like movies/games/music/etc. but I dont really get together with them more than once or twice a year and our ideas of a fun weekend have become very different.

Just part of life I guess, I relate more with my co-workers who all have families of their own.

 

[Rygar 8Bit]

Nope I still have a big group of people I grew up with, and we're all still into the same things we were back then.