Do you eat (East) Asian food with a fork or spoon rather than chopsticks?

  • Yes, it's so much easier

    Votes: 615 63.3%
  • No, what's wrong with you?!

    Votes: 351 36.1%
  • I don't eat Asian food period

    Votes: 5 0.5%

  • Total voters
    971

Raftina

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Jun 27, 2020
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I do not know about any other Asian country but...

In China, it is normal to lift the bowl and bend down your head to eat your food, especially rice. We also just push the last few kernels of rice into our mouths.

I think a lot of westerners think we have these mad skillz where we lift loose kernels of fried rice off a plate with a chopstick and deliver bites to our mouths while maintaining a perfectly erect posture like western dining or something. Not really. We have different table manners that are more conducive to using chopsticks to eat rice from a bowl and chopped up dishes from common plates.

Giant plate of Yangzhou fried rice? There is usually a ceramic (or plastic these days) spoon for that.
 

IMCaprica

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Aug 1, 2019
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The people who stress about authenticity are the same people who go to Korean restaurants and use chopsticks for rice when there's a perfectly good spoon sitting right next to the rice.
 

Catshade

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Oct 26, 2017
2,239
Asian living in Southeast Asian country here: Chopstick only when I eat broth-y noodles at Chinese/Japanese restaurants. The rest (fried noodles, rice, eating at home) I use spoon and/or fork.
 

Wereroku

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Oct 27, 2017
7,101
Depends on what I am eating. With soups I use chopsticks and spoon. Everything else I will just use a fork.
 

fontguy

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Oct 8, 2018
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I don't just have chopsticks ready to go for my monthly Chinese meal, succulent though it may be.
 

Alpheus

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Oct 25, 2017
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Varies. If I'm provided chopsticks, I use chopsticks. If I'm provided a fork, I use a fork. If I'm home I use a fork because I own no chopsticks.
basically where I'm at with it. My group of friends were predominantly Asian growing up so I put forth the effort to learn so that I didn't look like a rube if we ever went to one of the many local restaurants we would hit up.
 

Giever

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Oct 25, 2017
1,756
Yes, I've tried many times to use chopsticks, but it just ends up hurting my hands and I can't do it well. I've also been mocked a little bit before by staff for asking for a fork and it kind of sucked, but I don't want to hurt my hands, sorry?
 

Edward

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Oct 30, 2017
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I can use sticks fine but if there is a fork/spoon i would rather just use that.

It's food. Eat it however you want.
 

Kohlbiri

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Apr 3, 2019
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Chinese-American here. I don't know why but I try to use chopsticks as much as I can even if it'd be easier to eat with a spoon or fork instead. It makes my mom really exasperated.
 

Imperfected

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Nov 9, 2017
11,737
I eat with the tools available. That often means chopsticks, sometimes means fork, and back when I lived in Korea often seemed to be chopsticks, knife, and spoon for whatever reason.
 

Tangyn

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Oct 29, 2017
2,281
Rice is my staple like 90% of all meals I have rice and I use a spoon. I can and will use chopsticks if required or when travelling and it's what is provided but I find it easier with a spoon so I use a spoon
 

limenglm

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Jan 10, 2019
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I think the material used for producing chopsticks matters too. Chopsticks made from bamboos are the best. The extra friction from the surface of bamboo sticks make it so much easier to pick up stuff. They are extremely light-weight, and very comfortable to be held.

Bamboo sticks are more environmental friendly as well. Bamboos grow extremely fast so unlike wooden sticks, we don't have to destroy forests to make them. They are also more easily decomposed compare to plastic and stainless steel ones.

Plastic and stainless steel chopsticks are the worst. Environment impacts aside, the slippery surfaces on them make them infinitely harder to use, and the weight is all wrong. In restaurants that only provide plastic/stainless steel chopsticks, I would prefer to use spoon instead.
 

akilshohen

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Dec 8, 2017
1,394
Spoon for rice, but chopsticks for everything else... aside from when I go to something like a steakhouse
 

MrKlaw

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Oct 25, 2017
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I think the material used for producing chopsticks matters too. Chopsticks made from bamboos are the best. The extra friction from the surface of bamboo sticks make it so much easier to pick up stuff. They are extremely light-weight, and very comfortable to be held.

Bamboo sticks are more environmental friendly as well. Bamboos grow extremely fast so unlike wooden sticks, we don't have to destroy forests to make them. They are also more easily decomposed compare to plastic and stainless steel ones.

Plastic and stainless steel chopsticks are the worst. Environment impacts aside, the slippery surfaces on them make them infinitely harder to use, and the weight is all wrong. In restaurants that only provide plastic/stainless steel chopsticks, I would prefer to use spoon instead.

I'm not a fan of the thick/flat ended disposable chopsticks. Much prefer the ones that come to a point - way easier for separating things
 

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Chopsticks for nearly everything.

If it's a plated dish then chopsticks plus spoon. Or if it's something like Pho or ramen then it's chopsticks and spoon.

If it's com tam dat biet then it's knife and spoon or knife and fork depending on my mood.
 
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DiipuSurotu

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Oct 25, 2017
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I do not know about any other Asian country but...

In China, it is normal to lift the bowl and bend down your head to eat your food, especially rice. We also just push the last few kernels of rice into our mouths.

I think a lot of westerners think we have these mad skillz where we lift loose kernels of fried rice off a plate with a chopstick and deliver bites to our mouths while maintaining a perfectly erect posture like western dining or something. Not really. We have different table manners that are more conducive to using chopsticks to eat rice from a bowl and chopped up dishes from common plates.

Giant plate of Yangzhou fried rice? There is usually a ceramic (or plastic these days) spoon for that.
I had no idea. Needs pic or video or something
 

KodaRuss

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Oct 27, 2017
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Usually whatever is provided. If both then it depends on the dish, if it has rice I am using a fork every time.

Not sure how people eat rice with chopsticks, it would take me an hour.
 

Nappuccino

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Oct 25, 2017
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I wish I were better with chop sticks. I can do sushi all right, and bite-sized pieces of chicken and veggies. But rice? (or bigger items?) forget about it.
 

Raftina

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Jun 27, 2020
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I had no idea. Needs pic or video or something
Sure. Some examples. If you want to look for them, I would recommend against using videos specifically about one person eating, because those can be a bit exaggerated for effect.

1. Starts eating around 5:25
2. Starts from 0:00
3. Starts from 0:00

Generally, you can see that we bend down and lift the bowls a lot, partly to avoid dropping things and partly because it is annoying to move the chopstick a huge amount of distance repeatedly.
 

FlexMentallo

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Oct 29, 2017
1,124
Los Angeles
Needs a most of the time option!

I mostly use chopsticks with SE Asian food but get lazy and resort to a fork at times. Not for sushi, though. Not for East Asian food either.

Once you get the hang of eating rice or slippery stuff like maybe soupy wontons with chopsticks you can do most foods. I find the thick plastic chopsticks harder to use too.

Definitely took me a while in my teens to get my stumpy white boy fingers holding them even vaguely right.
 

Benzychenz

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Nov 1, 2017
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Chopsticks only if I'm at a restaurant and that's what they give me by default.

Fork or spoon is just easier and quicker to use in every single situation.
 

Herb Alpert

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Oct 25, 2017
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It depends.
Usually I use chopsticks but when it becomes too difficult (some noodles or small vegetables) I put my pride aside and use a fork.