What ended your marriage, Divorced Era?
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The Fight About Lunch
"Money had always been a hot-button issue between my ex and I. She stayed at home with the kids while I worked. What I could not seem to understand was how such a predictable schedule could be so unpredictably expensive. From my midtown office, I could feel our credit card getting heavier with every passing day. We fought about it a lot. It seems so immature in hindsight, but it was the tug finally unraveling a seven-year marriage.
'How can a lunch for one be that expensive?' I asked one day. It was not just for her, she also paid for a friend, she said. 'Who was it?' I asked. 'A friend, does it matter?' That is when I lost it. The conversation quickly disintegrated into accusations and threats, which abruptly ended with us bringing up divorce. She then grabbed her keys, purse and headed out the driveway. The next four months would be a whirlwind of attorney visits, legal briefs, court dates and a few failed attempts to reconcile.
If you're wondering, I finally learned the identity of the 'friend.' Sometime later, my kids were talking about mom's boyfriend's birthday dinner. I asked where they ate. 'His favorite restaurant of all time,' they said. I discovered the truth there: I had an old credit card receipt to prove it." ―Kyle B.