Chances of Pregnancy
- Thread starter Ziltoidia 9
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Same thing happened with me and my wife. Took 1.5 years for it to happen.
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This was my first sexual experience. I was 34. Yeah yeah, old virgin. Yall can laugh I guess.
I said it reduced the chances based on information I found online. I didnt say it was impossible.
Like it has been mentioned, et the Plan B pill. Otherwise it is just a waiting game.
No offense but you posted this on the internet. Those responses are coming regardless
No offense but you posted this on the internet. Those responses are coming regardless
The real answer.
OP, you are in a precarious situation but the odds are mostly in your favor.
OP ignored this so the answer is probably yes
time for Plan B
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Is she on birth control? If you discussed ovulation, did you discuss Plan B?
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She says plan B isn't safe for her. And she says she isn't worried.
Past the prime for baby making. Not "old" in the sense that a full life has been lived.
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You should trust your partner, She knows her body better than anyone else. Ultimately it is her decision either way.
EDIT: Sex is about trust, in every sense that I can think of. Pregnancy can and does happen, my wife and I have had no problems getting pregnant before, but our last child took us almost 9 months. Don't freak out, and don't be obsessive over it. Realize that she COULD get pregnant, be supportive of her with her health and her decisions, and, if she wants a baby, be a dad.
EDIT: Sex is about trust, in every sense that I can think of. Pregnancy can and does happen, my wife and I have had no problems getting pregnant before, but our last child took us almost 9 months. Don't freak out, and don't be obsessive over it. Realize that she COULD get pregnant, be supportive of her with her health and her decisions, and, if she wants a baby, be a dad.
LMAO! For real!!! Congrats on the kid op!
I guess we just throw all the shit we learn in middle/high school out the window when we actually have sex.
Lol, you should know better than to expect that here. 0-2 on sound judgement buddy.
There are honestly so many factors involved that it is really difficult to know, to be quite honest. We started trying for our third when my wife was 37, and it took us awhile to get pregnant. Parts of physiology just mean some people are/aren't more likely to get pregnant not only based on time of the month. Shit's weird. Our first child was after we were married, but wasn't exactly planned.
It's nothing to laugh about, but it was incredibly foolish to have unprotected sex just because it was your first sexual experience. The dude I had sex with for the first time was wearing a condom and it was also his first time. I don't get the reasoning here.
That being said, It depends a LOT. Like others have said in this thread, for some people, conceiving is incredibly difficult. For others, it happens the first time they ever have unprotected sex. You might be fine, but there is literally no answer that anyone can give that is 100% certain.
Yeah, there are apps that can track it. All the woman puts in her last period date and average cycle
If you busted inside her, you've got a decent chance tbh. Would probably recommend having a Plan B discussion ASAP.
If not, it's not impossible that she'd be pregnant, but also not super likely. If it's any consolation my wife and I have relied on the pull-out method for five years now and have yet to produce another human. Regardless, if you aren't comfortable and confident that you could raise a child with this person you probably should still consider Plan B.
In any case, I'll leave some Neil Cicierega for ya
If not, it's not impossible that she'd be pregnant, but also not super likely. If it's any consolation my wife and I have relied on the pull-out method for five years now and have yet to produce another human. Regardless, if you aren't comfortable and confident that you could raise a child with this person you probably should still consider Plan B.
In any case, I'll leave some Neil Cicierega for ya
Ziltoidia 9 the chances are low-ish but not impossible. If you want true peace of mind, convince her to get Plan B, honestly.
And, seriously, mistakes happen and all but... wrap it up next time, for the love of Satan. xD
It doesn't mean pregnancy is impossible, only that it's more difficult for women to conceive after that age. Some couples try for years without any luck.
And, seriously, mistakes happen and all but... wrap it up next time, for the love of Satan. xD
Of course it's not "old". But fertility in women start to plummet drastically after the age of 35. This is fairly well known.
It doesn't mean pregnancy is impossible, only that it's more difficult for women to conceive after that age. Some couples try for years without any luck.
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Thank you
I know it was stupid but it all happened so fast. She mounted me and just started going.
I don't care what age you or anybody else loses your virginity at, nor do I think it's funny. I'm just saying that you and this woman should be talking this out and also involving a doctor if you're truly concerned.
I only know this because my mom is a mega Pro-Life Catholic, but that's the only kind of "contraception" she thinks isn't a sin more or less.
If it was your first time it most likely means you busted fairly quick and you were not ready to pull out when it happened. Always a possibility, better to assume it might happen that it not happening.
Nobody on this site should laugh at you for being a virgin at any age. If it makes you feel better I'm 31 and have no experience and am content to wait for the right moment. As others have said the odds are low, but it's something you should probably start preparing for the worst case scenario. Don't freak out to her, but look at your financial situation and see if there are places you can start cutting back to save up.
In all seriousness OP, the chances are pretty slim that she is pregnant. It's not impossible, though. Be more careful next time for sure
In terms of pregnancy, your chances start to dramatically reduce at around 34.
In terms of pregnancy, your chances start to dramatically reduce at around 34.
