Yeah. I guess I'm just shocked that this movement formed instead of something useful and positive.In this case, they're quite literally the opposite of a support group. The whole point of this 'community' is that if you're an incel there's nothing you can ever do and you'll always be like that.
All it does is cut off mainstream visibility. Those that are drawn by these communities will find the lesser known platforms regardless. If anything it makes them even more insular and radical by removing any and all outside perspective reaching them.
Deplattforming alone is useless. It's a temporary fix at best.
ya, i'm not a fan of that train of thought at all. most people experience what they experience. rejection and insecurity.I like how the incels are being treated as the victims of society. Give me a break.
No I dont think they need sympathy either, they are a digusting group. But i think its important to aknowledge how people end up in this state so that we can prevent it happening to more people.
No I dont think they need sympathy either, they are a digusting group. But i think its important to aknowledge how people end up in this state so that we can prevent it happening to more people.
I like how this is now the "leftist/liberals" fault.
I'm assuming you've taken this perspective because liberals embrace female equality and empowerment and incels blame exactly that for their misery
Maybe I didn't express myself clearly, but what I meant isn't that this is the left/liberals fault, at all. The only ones to blame are the enablers of this toxic culture online (I doubt this 'movement' is purely organic), and the 'incels' themselves.
What I meant is that from a combat perspective, not taking this kind of thing seriously is a mistake when you are on the right side. We saw this through history, decent/militant people believing too much in 'common sense' when this is something that varies wildly. To fight this, the movements must see this as the threat as this is, an organized, toxic movement who are getting youths to develop bitter and dangerous mentalities towards entire (minority included) groups, not as some poor pathetic inoffensive virgins locked in basements far far away. The fact that many people didn't even know they existed is a sign of this problem.
When you see a columnist in one of the biggest media outlets in the world suggesting they 'make kinda sense' we have a problem.
And that is precisely the problem, it's very accessible and doesn't label itself as the extremist recruiting website that it is. I have been in favor of it getting shut down since before the 2016 elections and look at just how much harm it has done since then. Whoever owns it should be ashamed of themselves for brainwashing so many young people with bullshit and hateful ideas.Not to deescalate the situation, but there are other mediums where anonymity exists and people talk about doing violence to others, right? There are even forums dedicated to witch hunting, doxing, swatting, etc. 4chan just has the spotlight because of how accessible it is to anyone.
An issue that I think is becoming more prevalent is that teenage boys are being introduced to incel culture before even experiencing any sort of heartbreak or rejection. So now you have a bunch of toxic assholes who believe that their interactions with women are predicated on them being perceived as worthless and their view of women as being a manipulative person with a hole they think they deserve. It's the dumbest fucking shit. It's a group of immature males who don't want to do the work of improving themselves and would rather sit back and jerk each other off over how much they hate women.
All of these things: terrorism, incels, suicide promotion, etc etc. are all the other edge to the sword of video game forums, disease support groups, etc.
You can't provide a technology that allows individuals to form groups organically and then only apply it to groups you like. Either you shut down the Internet or you accept it'll happen.
We seem to be able to shut down ISIS groups on such sites quickly, and thus were able to massively hamper their recruitment among western youth. The mafia sure doesn't seem to have open recruitment spots there, nor do drug cartels.
But the instant it's mainly white guys doing the terror, we act like there's nothing we can do, since apparently, NOW the only alternative is either do nothing or shut it all down.
Weird!
Why can't we just try to shut down such groups, for a change, like we'd take down any other group doing illegal acts on, say, reddit? Why can we shut down a warez site, but not 4chan? Why is this so unthinkable?
This is not how radicalization works. Deplattforming is the core of fighting such ideologies, because such ideologies can only form a critical mass if they have platforms.
In fact, it is the mere fact that a platform exists for them that allows them to even come into being as a group. Incels are what you get when you get enough people that blame women for their failings, give their hatred a name, and start imagining an ideology around it. Cut off the platform, and there's nothing left to hold them together.
The contemplacy to just let the platforms be, claim that any action against them is pointless, is what lets them grow.
Did no one ever teach these incel guys that rejection is a part of life? Rejection for school, jobs, dating, etc. Anything you are going for, you should always expect there are at least 1000 other people going for the same thing. It would be extremely rare to go through life and not get rejected most of the time. You learn from it, hopefully get better, and try again or move on.
This could be a consequence of the "everyone is special" mindset that was pushed hard in the last few decades. If you go through life thinking you are innately special and amazing, it can be tough to understand when you get rejected. If you want something, you need to work at it, and even then you should still expect to be rejected.
I can access ISIS propaganda if I want. I can access warez if I want. In the U.K. we have an entire national firewall dedicated to stopping pirate movies and it's had zero effect.
Trying to make problems go away by just banning their expression has literally never worked in history, but I'm sure this time we've got it down.
I didn't say that they should leave them a platform, but it borders at delusion to actually believe that just taking away popular platforms on Reddit or 4chan that the problem would be solved or no further radicalisation occurs
More likely the result of entitlement built through years of mass media indoctrination into thinking every mediocre white boy deserves a incredibly attractive woman as most tv shows and movies show
Yea, it was an interesting listenThe latest episode of "Reply All" goes into the origins of "Incel".
It's very interesting and worth a listen. Shocking how something that originally started as a support group became warped and distorted into the vitriolic, hate filled cesspit that exists today
It's not so much entitlement but rather as a feeling of worthlessness for some. I didn't have a single date in high school, I felt like a loser. This was a long time ago and I didn't feel entitled nor did I have any extremist communities to join
Of course it's high school and it's generally pretty ruthless so people who are on the outside of being "cool".
A lot of these guys join these communities just looking for someone to talk to and instead they end up getting radicalized by the extreme members. If these communities were properly moderated it wouldn't be a problem, but they seem to encourage this.
foreveralone is a more tame subreddit on this topic but that place is depressing as hell and those people seem to have given up.
There is still a chance to remove and deplatform them before they can become a problem.
i take that tweet to mean if someone working for you is a forever alone type you fire them.
A lot? If you know a sizeable amount of your employees think this way, you need to figure out ways to address it.
One said: "DON'T be selfish. Go to an elementary school and kill some children before you commit suicide. Please!?!"
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i take that tweet to mean if someone working for you is a forever alone type you fire them.
A lot? If you know a sizeable amount of your employees think this way, you need to figure out ways to address it.
Yeah there's a lot more than you'd think, the standards of attractiveness in the west kinda precludes a lot of them getting much action. It's kinda brushed under the rug and ignored as it's a bad look to admit "yeah we just don't those people attractive soz", that it straight up is beyond their control in some respects leaving them with the choice of bottling it up or venting on one of those forums already mentioned or r/hapas if they're mixedWhat the fuck is a currycell? I'm guessing Indian incel? I get the feeling that there's a portion of incels that are of Indian/Asian ethnicity. I swear I've seen a fair amount self hate messages in /r/incels mentioning those races...
There is still a chance to remove and deplatform them before they can become a problem.
You can recognize the foundations of a problem without excusing people that fall into it.I like how the incels are being treated as the victims of society. Give me a break.
There are people that think that shunning and shaming is the solution. They want background checks to see if theyve had steady girlfriends.. if not they are fired.How do you even know if someone is a forever alone type? And to what ends is firing them going to do any good for anyone? You take someone who is most likely depressed, angry, and being fed toxic and violent messaging about how the world is out to get them and they should go out in a blaze if glory, and you fire them?
Incels are a byproduct of our society. A society that shuns empathy, a society that applies easy feel god labels to everything so we don't have to think about it anymore. Done, filed and sentenced. A society that declares peoples worth by how much they earn, how much they have sex, by how many vapid trends they follow.
Btw, nuking the popular boards for these people is like putting a bandaid over a snakebite. It's nothing more than a feel good action without actually doing anything.
Here have a pat on the back. Out of view out of mind. I swear we have less object permanence than a fucking newborn.
When do you collect your Pulitzer?Nah, man. They just need willing sex volunteers to take away their pain of being an average privileged male with no positive personality traits.
*writes an NYT OpEd*
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I just googled incel and looked up news about them, just to get more insight and read about people who are a part of this group - if you're all interested, I'd recommend doing the same.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vi...cle/435g9p/how-to-help-an-incel-sex-therapist
This talks about therapy with a South Asian man who skirted the lines of being a part of the incel community, but decided to go to therapy instead of diving in, and it kind of gives you insight into the minds of some of the South Asian (currycel?) members of the movement.
It seems like this isn't just a thing that affects straight white racist men, but can be a product of internalized racism, and other things that make this not very black and white.
Beta cucks wasn't good enough?It's funny that loser virgins have given themselves a name now.
You gotta be in a relationship to get cucked. These dudes ain't even so much as held a woman's hand.
The name of this group is so weird to me. "Involuntary celibate" doesn't make sense, because if you choose to be affiliated to such a group aren't you a voluntary celibate? What happens if an incel has sex? Is he kicked out of the little terrorist group? Is there a separate group of incels who had sex but still hate women? I have so many questions.
Also, these guys are dangerous and should be monitored very, very closely and banned from public places on the internet like 4Chan (good to see that Reddit already did that).
So then they're not really 'incels', right? They're 'cels', because they're actively avoiding sex.The article mentions any positivity relating to forming a relationship is met with hatred and the user is branded a traitor to incels.
Incels seem to be more of the type of person that is not only a virgin at 40 but has never even had a kiss. You know the one or two people in school that were completely inept socially? The internet has brought them together.So then they're not really 'incels', right? They're 'cels', because they're actively avoiding sex.