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rrc1594

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Oct 25, 2017
9,824
I have 5 Aunties and calling them Auntie sounds way better then calling them Aunt.
 

RoadDogg

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,066
It sounds too old. Maybe call your grandparents sister Auntie. But your parents sister being Auntie sounds wrong, unless they make pretzels I guess.
 

Goldenroad

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Banned
Nov 2, 2017
9,475
Auntie is to Aunt as Mommy is to Mom. Its just very juvenile sounding and its an extra syllable no one has time for.
 

entremet

You wouldn't toast a NES cartridge
Member
Oct 26, 2017
60,353
auntie is big in the black community.

i say "tia". i'm latino.
 

Deleted member 4614

Oct 25, 2017
6,345
I don't want to come across like I"m mocking black culture.

The big white dispute is between "aunt" and "ant"
 

astro

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Oct 25, 2017
57,073
Aunt or Auntie is fine. Neither sounds like "baby talk". Some of y'all are weird.
 

Akira86

Member
Oct 25, 2017
19,598
why do we have different cultures and languages?

wasn't it about building a tower to god or sommat?
 

Bigwombat

Banned
Nov 30, 2018
3,416
Just to be clear even though I think auntie sounds weird to me it doesn't mean I have a problem with the terminology. It's not super prevelant in white families. I've heard my African American friends say it but they grew up calling their aunties that
 

Tbm24

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Oct 25, 2017
16,329
When I was 2-4 years old I called my mom "mommy". I've never actually heard an adult call their mother that. It might be a cultural thing though.
Well, I find it odd but my first language is Spanish and I make heavy use of ma, mamá, and mommy since I could talk. This includes around just English speakers and never had anyone point it out to me. So I find this weird.
 

Curler

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Oct 26, 2017
15,611
Just like the 2 ways of pronouncing it, I think it's regional.

Before I moved: Everyone uses "auntie" (including adults)
After moving: Use "aunt" to refer to family, but sometimes "aunties" to refer to older women
 

Goldenroad

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Nov 2, 2017
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Well, I find it odd but my first language is Spanish and I make heavy use of ma, mamá, and mommy since I could talk. This includes around just English speakers and never had anyone point it out to me. So I find this weird.

Do you watch English TV or movies at all? You will almost never hear that word come out of an adult characters mouth, unless it is an adult talking to a child. Again its clearly a cultural thing and nobody is going to be so rude to tell you not to call your mom "mommy", but I'm just saying its not typical amongst people I know or TV/Movies I watch for adult characters to refer to their mom as mommy.
 

jph139

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Oct 25, 2017
14,406
"Aunt" ends too sharply - you can't easily roll the word into the actual name of the person. For example, "Auntie Mary" flows WAY better than "Aunt Mary."

In the abstract I would use the word "aunt" - for example, "I was visiting my aunt last weekend" - but as a title, it's always Auntie.
 

thediamondage

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Oct 25, 2017
11,330
its football vs soccer or feet vs meters, most cultures I think use auntie/uncle while a few (American? not sure who else) use Aunt/Uncle

i know when we visit my wifes (asian) in country relatives literally everyone is either auntie X or uncle Y, the actual relation doesn't matter. Its almost the equivalent of Mr or Mrs. If you help an old lady across the street or to pull down a can from the grocery store, you rush up "let me help you auntie..."
 

Dan-o

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Oct 25, 2017
4,902
I don't have time for extra syllables. I've saved so much time saying Aunt instead of (the longer one), you don't even know!
 

Akira86

Member
Oct 25, 2017
19,598
my generation was the ant generation, somewhere along the line people tried to sell the auntie lie. I witnessed it happen, but said nothing.

sometimes i said "aunt"
 

Slayven

Never read a comic in his life
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Oct 25, 2017
93,316
Because it is? It's literally juvenile terminology

Like said above, it could be a regional / cultural thing.
You just made me think back to the time i was over a white friend's house and his mom told him to do something and he went off on her. As black child that was like seeing a UFO for the first time.
 

Chainshada

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Oct 25, 2017
2,649
I used to call mine Auntie when I was a kid, as an adult I just call them by name, some are common names so if someone needs clarification on who I'm talking about it'll be "My Aunt" for non-family members or "Auntie ________" for relatives. Though that's rare as they usually pick up that if I say "Jen" I mean our shared Aunt, or if I'm talking to an Aunt/Uncle that I mean their sister.
 

Naijaboy

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Mar 13, 2018
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Killmonger knows what's up.

...and it's also used by Nigerians.
 

Tbm24

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Oct 25, 2017
16,329
Do you watch English TV or movies at all? You will almost never hear that word come out of an adult characters mouth, unless it is an adult talking to a child. Again its clearly a cultural thing and nobody is going to be so rude to tell you not to call your mom "mommy", but I'm just saying its not typical amongst people I know or TV/Movies I watch for adult characters to refer to their mom as mommy.
It's not something I ever though about until I read this thread frankly. Also I'm American who just had non-English speaking parents. I refer to my mother as mommy like 90% of the time. In person or on the phone(even text lol).

This notion that it's not a thing adults say is throwing me for a loop. Either way, learned something new today, will happily raise my daughter to refer to her mother as Mommy as she grows still. Maybe folks will feel less weird and start using it more.

This conversation just reminds me why I find English such a harsh and ugly language.
 

LetalisAmare

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Oct 27, 2017
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Auntie and Aunt were both terms I used as a kid. I dont think I've said either along with Uncle since I was a teen.