Video games often don't have particularly good depictions of romantic relationships. Usually characters do not ever display affect for other characters (I blame men being uncomfortable at showing feelings), but when games actually do represent loving relationships, they're often not very well-written and they usually happen off-screen or prior to the actual game events. When we finally do get some type of romantic relationship, it is often just stroking the player's ego as some sort of benevolent Jesus like Mass Effect or Persona, where the other characters simply fall for the player-character and praise them to high heaven. In a sense, video games either are too shy to even address romance or they are childish by portraying love as some sort of instrumentalized power fantasy.
In this sense, I thought The Last of Us 2 was pretty groundbreaking. While playing it, I was incredibly invested in the relationship between Dina and Ellie. Their affection for one another was incredibly well-realized, passionate, and also with ups and downs. Their love for each other was the emotional core to the game's plot and made everything in the game matter. Their interactions depending on the context was very natural, organic, and believable. I do not think any other game has gotten close to having such a well-realized portrayal of romance and love be part of a game, but maybe I'm misremembering?
The only other games that I come to think of that represent love and romance between characters somewhat decently or impressive are:
- House in Fata Morgana
- The Darkness
- Uncharted
- Last of Us: Left Behind
- Life is Strange
- Max Payne 2
- Silent Hill 2 (somewhat)
Then you have the romance RPGs where unfortunately the relationship seems more like an algorithmic slot machine that congratulate the player when doing the right things:
- Mass Effect / KOTOR / Dragon Age
- Persona
- Witcher 2 and 3
- Skyrim
You also have the Quantic Dream / David Cage games and those are just awkward and god-awful, so I hope no one mentions those.
Looking at the list above, I really think TLOU2 is a landmark when it comes to depiction of a romance. Is there any other game that actually portrays it as well as the one we saw with Dina and Ellie?