I can't imagine not being able to take my car to the supermarket, or the doctor, or sporting events where I need to carry a bunch of equipment. Or having to ride a bus with a bunch of strangers in the middle of pandemic. Sounds absolutely awful.
It's not just about the public transport system but also about how cities are designed. If you were living in my country, only the the carrying of equipment requires private transportation. Or I could just hire a cab and ride that instead. Most people here live 10 mins away from a mall, by walking or by bus. Like I have 3 supermarkets that takes me 10 mins to walk to. In that same radius I have
-10 clinics I can see if I'm sick
-20 hair salons
-10 places to eat at
-4 different banks
-Post office
-1 Gym
-3 schools
-More stores providing goods and service than I can count
-a train station
-a mall that has 100 stores/eateries.
Most people live like a 10 min bus ride from a place where they have all these things here.
Right in front of my apartment I have a bus stop that has 10 different bus services on 10 different routes. That's how convenient things are here. Buses come every 5 to 10 minutes so they're never that packed and 99% of the time people behave.