I hate this argument of "giving the other side ammunition". Just this week you have fox news faking news coverage in Seattle, last week they made a 75 year old man into an Antifa soldier. They make shit up anyways, so who gives a fuck.
Because there is a legitimate reason to discuss the complicated and debated legacy of someone that is both hated and loved by the same cultural group of people.
His history isn't fake news. The point with "giving them ammunition" is that fake news that is baseless is mostly ineffective, but legit news with merit is significantly more damaging. It's why they continue to champion the rioters and looters as being more of a threat to the police and why minority leaders have openly disavowed the movement from those actions. It's why every time someone ever mentions "black on black" crime being statistically worse than "cop on black" crimes, even though it's never an argument argued in good faith.
Even if they internally agree that rioting and damaging property can get results (I certainly do), there is a reason you don't let that take over the narrative, because there are sadly enough moderates out there who can change the tide, and, hell, even many of the businesses and politicians taking action now NEVER would have done so if they thought they could weasel their way out of it.
Tearing down Grant's statue isn't fake news. It's real news. Tearing down statues of a Spanish missionary that the Native American community is split over is real news. As I already said, as a Native American most affected by historic colonialism, I don't want this lumped in with the BLM movement because I feel it has significantly different qualifiers, cultural history, and lack of consensus.
But don't think for one moment I'm not saying the conversation shouldn't happen (it's happening here, for instance, and I've been involved in it elsewhere at a local level). I'm with Clancy Brown's statement - I honestly don't know how I feel about this one. As stated, you're not going to find a lot of defense from minorities for statues of Robert E. Lee, but you will find a lot of defenders - including a sizable portion of the Native American community - defending Junipero Serra.