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gutter_trash

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User has been banned for a week: implying transgender women do not face abuse by hetro-males in positions of power, vague transphobia.
I don't want to make any assumptions...but this sounds dangerously close to "trans women don't get sexually assaulted"
that's not what I meant,

I meant by hetero-males in situations of power.
 

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Wait...RuPaul is shitty?

I thought everyone liked RuPaul

RuPaul is/was really important in expanding the audience for things like drag and changing broader social attitudes w/r/t queer public figures, but I'd never consider him to be a particularly thoughtful or socially responsible person. He's kind of like Madonna, in that he's influential or culturally significant, but outside of celebrity I don't think he has much to say.
 
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Goldenroad

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What is she supposed to do for Trans women? I was unaware that she was elected to some kind of public position where she needs to be doing anything for anyone. I think if you're in any kind of position of notoriety and use that fame to help even one person...that's a net positive. Complaining at some B-list celebrity for not solving all the worlds problems seems....uninformed to say the least.
 

gioRESET

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Ridiculous, what is that person doing interrupting Rose's presentation. Seems like a disrespectful display and a clear attempt to further her own agenda at the expense of Rose's presentation/discussion. Someone who is speaking about a subject DOES NOT have to cover all other misdeeds of the world. If Rose is speaking about one topic, she is not obligated to include any other topic that is even remotely related.

Rose did not have a breakdown, the "protestor" was being quite aggressive. If anything, Rose stood her ground and did not allow that clearly unhinged individual to shit on her panel. Of course she was emotional, the protestor was calling her work out, her efforts out. I would tell someone to get the f' out in the same situation.
 
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What is she supposed to do for Trans women? I was unaware that she was elected to some kind of public position where she needs to be doing anything for anyone. I think if you're in any kind of position of notoriety and use that fame to help even one person...that's a net positive. Complaining at some B-list celebrity for not solving all the worlds problems seems....uninformed to say the least.
That's not what this is about. Y'all are trolling at this point.
 

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Access to more information doesn't mean much if its goal - by algorithmic design - is to divide groups into echo chambers.

The first mass TV broadcast was pioneered by the Nazis in 1936. The point is we clearly haven't evolved much in our ability to critically process media. An entire social ecosystem of millions live exclusively inside Fox News.

But my last self-reflection on this topic is that it's easy to get nihilistic, as I have been lately. It's immensely frustrating that like minded people can't get behind the giant common goal of defeating the orange sociopath.

I miss the days of when this is how leaders responded to heckling:

 
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Ridiculous, what is that person doing interrupting Rose's presentation. Seems like a disrespectful display and a clear attempt to further her own agenda at the expense of Rose's presentation/discussion. Someone who is speaking about a subject DOES NOT have to cover all other misdeeds of the world. If Rose is speaking about one topic, she is not obligated to include any other topic that is even remotely related.

Rose did not have a breakdown, the "protestor" was being quite aggressive. If anything, Rose stood her ground and did not allow that clearly unhinged individual to shit on her panel. Of course she was emotional, the protestor was calling her work out, her efforts out. I would tell someone to get the f' out in the same situation.
Uppity! Out of line! I have never a minority who knows their place less!

Weinstein has to be giggling to himself with how McGowan finally gets taken down
What a contribution.
 

Goldenroad

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That's not what this is about. Y'all are trolling at this point.

I'm not trolling. I just watched the video and was like "why does this person expect Rose McGowan to be some kind of savior for every group of people in the world"? Like I say, if she even helped one woman, or person of any persuasion, come forth about a difficult situation, that's more than most people will ever do. I thought this thread was about the video, but if it's not then I apologize.
 

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What is she supposed to do for Trans women? I was unaware that she was elected to some kind of public position where she needs to be doing anything for anyone. I think if you're in any kind of position of notoriety and use that fame to help even one person...that's a net positive. Complaining at some B-list celebrity for not solving all the worlds problems seems....uninformed to say the least.

Speaking of uninformed, here's Goldenroad's hot take.
 

Goldenroad

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Speaking of uninformed, here's Goldenroad's hot take.

What am I missing? When did Rose McGowan become this figure that needs to spend her life defending everyone? I'm trying to reserve judgement. I'm just wondering where this idea came from.
Like, all I knew about her before the Weinstein thing was that she's an actress from some pretty bad movies. I do apologize if I am uninformed, but I'm just trying to understand why this person would have lashed out at her in that way.
 

nemoral

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Rose needs to get some help. She is understandably upset over her treatment, but she's been punching shadows so long she can't tell what's real and what's not anymore. Time for some self care.
 

ZattMurdock

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The second liberals as a whole care about transpeople on a level beyond being another vote they can use is the day I stop complaining about them. Til then? Nah.
Why are you singling out liberals or people with progressive left wing leaning? Honest question.

https://edition.cnn.com/2017/07/26/politics/trump-military-transgender/index.html

I think that we all agree that conservative right wing leaning which is the alternative either in the US or literally anywhere is worse, isn't it? And honestly, what you are asking for is literally impossible. Why? Because you don't get progressive voices to agree in every single thing, let alone convincing liberals of that. As long as we keep the infighting, things will keep getting worse.

We're tearing ourselves apart because we have leaders that do it. Speaking up against them isn't the issue, its their behavior. Rose specifically has had moments where she excludes transwomen. Sure its good for ciswomen if we allow them to do their thing alone but then we're left behind because they aren't being taken to task.

Our "leaders" get there because of propaganda. The propaganda that elected Trump got people that are against LGBTQ+ rights, against abortion laws, against immigration, against "outrage culture", freaking religious nuts, pro gun people AND shit like 4chan, Milo and nazis all together rallying for Trump. I know that we are living in this world and it's hard sometimes to step back and see the big picture, but this conservative wave is hitting us hard and not just in the United States mind you because despite the fact that they are weak and not even the majority, we waste our time fighting each other. They are united. We are not. I don't need the woman that lashed out on Rose to be a perfect ally. I don't need Rose to be a perfect ally. We all need to understand that as long as we keep finding reasons to divide ourselves, things will keep getting worse. There are powerful forces at play that are figuring out ways to fuck us over again and again, and this isn't just an United States issue. It's endemic across the globe. We either stick together or we lose. It's do or die, and it's not just the fate of the United States that is at risk.


Black people have been saying republicans were the devil since Reagan. And it's not because we're __divided__ it's because white americans are largely okay with racism until the racism is publicly tacky, a la trump


Not really sure how you can call the GOP "united" and "getting even more stronger" when Trump's approvals continue to drop and Repubs are bailing on Congress left and right. They have good whips is all

You two are thinking in terms of GOP, and I'm thinking in terms of conservative thinking as a whole becoming a new trend not just in the US, but every fucking where. Yes, the conservative wave is growing stronger. And yes, they have SEVERAL disagreements among each other. And yet, they still rally behind one common goal, which is, get people with conservative thinking that will fuck minorities over and over. And that's done through propaganda. Meanwhile, we, the "clever and progressive minds" keep fighting among ourselves. Which reminds me something I've saw on twitter the other day:



They get there because propaganda channels their hate and phobia against minorities into power. Meanwhile, we fight among ourselves. And I wish there was a place that this isn't happening, that conservative waves was an isolated USA issue because at the very least we'd know it's a fluke and have hopes that eventually things would get better. When you step back and see the rise of extreme right wing leaning parties literally across the globe, you know that something is up. We can beat them, but as long as we keep fighting among ourselves, we are screwed.

Access to more information doesn't mean much if its goal - by algorithmic design - is to divide groups into echo chambers.

The first mass TV broadcast was pioneered by the Nazis in 1936. The point is we clearly haven't evolved much in our ability to critically process media. An entire social ecosystem of millions live exclusively inside Fox News.

But my last self-reflection on this topic is that it's easy to get nihilistic, as I have been lately. It's immensely frustrating that like minded people can't get behind the giant common goal of defeating the orange sociopath.

I miss the days of when this is how leaders responded to heckling:



And I'm sorry for somewhat derailing the thread, but this post gets it and that's what I'm talking about. Social media is fucking us up. We all want the same thing, but we don't seem willing to understand that taking out each other down will do us no favors, and when we realize, Trump was just the beginning of something way, WAY worse. Which frustrates me to no end.
 

GraphicViolets

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It's pretty obvious what I meant. She's going to be torn down because I sincerely doubt she will admit she fucked up. She shouldn't be the figurehead for this movement.
It wasn't obvious which I'm glad you explained because I like I'm pretty sure tencentcoast was reading it sounded like you were lamenting that the foes of the movement would get to celebrate this as a victory making the woman in the wrong for confronting rose

agreed with your sentiment
(edit. removed the smile at the end cause it made it look like this was a favorable end. its not. would be nice if rose hadn't expressed transphobia and doubled down but here we are...)
 
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Lord Brady

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Rose needs help. The kind you dont get from publicists, assistants or managers. I hope for her sake, and ours, that she gets it and then returns stronger to fight Harvey.
 

incogneato

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if you have a response to those tweets that aren't "she needs to seek help from qualified people and i hope she gets it" you're a nasty person

its very clear that she aint there fully right now so lets not push her towards the deep end with performative woke trolling (like i see in those twitter mentions)
 

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What am I missing? When did Rose McGowan become this figure that needs to spend her life defending everyone? I'm trying to reserve judgement. I'm just wondering where this idea came from.
Like, all I knew about her before the Weinstein thing was that she's an actress from some pretty bad movies. I do apologize if I am uninformed, but I'm just trying to understand why this person would have lashed out at her in that way.

Why the strawman? Nobody - literally nobody - said she needs to spend her life defending everyone. She DOES need to be held accountable for past transphobia, specifically if she is going to publically advocate for women's rights because, again, trans women are women.

Also, it doesn't seem like you're trying very hard to understand the context here given that the video begins with the heckler saying let's talk about your comments on the Ru Paul podcast. Also, this thread is filled with examples of why this person lashed out at her for transphobia.

One last thing: Everyone saying "She doesn't have to defend x, she's advocating for y," you understand your arguments are inherently trans exclusionary, right? If you are acting like the rights of trans women and the rights of cis women are apples and oranges, that is straight up othering trans people. Trans women and cis women are both women.
 

hansel

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Can we have a moratorium on threads about her? Feels too much like punching down at someone who is suffering because of her experiences with monsters.
 

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Yeah, she needs to take a break for a bit. This is clearly taking a toll on her, and I don't want to see her mental state decline anymore.
 
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What am I missing? When did Rose McGowan become this figure that needs to spend her life defending everyone? I'm trying to reserve judgement. I'm just wondering where this idea came from.
Like, all I knew about her before the Weinstein thing was that she's an actress from some pretty bad movies. I do apologize if I am uninformed, but I'm just trying to understand why this person would have lashed out at her in that way.
The person in the crowd wasn't asking McGowan to relresere the trans community, she was asking her to address very transphobic things she has said in the past.
I think that we all agree that conservative right wing leaning which is the alternative either in the US or literally anywhere is worse, isn't it? And honestly, what you are asking for is literally impossible. Why? Because you don't get progressive voices to agree in every single thing, let alone convincing liberals of that. As long as we keep the infighting, things will keep getting worse.
So we should just be complacent, then? Because I mean, at least the Democrats don't want us shot, they just want us to go away.
 

8byte

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I can't believe this is where we're at on the left. These purity tests are unsustainable, and labeling any and everything as "problematic" is more "problematic" to progress than simply letting people fight for a cause.

I don't believe that Rose is the person to speak out on behalf of that community, and asking her to do so would ultimately come across as disingenuous and wouldn't survive public scrutiny.

We've gotta be better thna this. Better than tearing down victims because they don't represent every group that has been oppressed. One person does not lead all minority or oppressed communities. It takes a group of leaders representative of their communities to come together and push forward, not hold each other back aiming for time in the spotlight.

This is absurd.
 
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