-talking about exes
-talking about therapy sessions
-talking about what other people have told them "would be good for them"
-talking about previous trauma from boyfriends, family, friends, etc.
-talking about 'our future'
-talking about kids (as in, having them with me)
Talking about kids in GENERAL - is ok, you don't want to spend 2 years with someone to later find out they never wanted kids in the first place.
But I agree with the "our future" part, lol - that is way too soon - and yes, should be red flag, lol