Incredibly sorry to hear that, amoy. For what little it's worth, just know that your attitude is truly an inspiration to me.
Best of luck OP, from across the pond in Australia. My dad is in a similar situation. Your story is hopefully a reminder for everyone to take the time and get checked out. Thinking of you mate. <3
Edit: he's stage IV too and his positive outlook has meant I've seen him enjoying life more than ever, and he's keeping it at bay. You can do the same OP. 🙏
I was a bit like you when I was diagnosed. I just went... Kind of numb until I got that first dose of chemo and the side effects started to kick in.
It kind of went in the pattern of family falling apart, me 'okay', then my family being 'okay' and me falling apart, and then back the other way. A social worker told me that was pretty common, it was just one of the things people never really talked about.
I wish you all the best, OP. Keep yourself in the best brainspace you can, don't be afraid to reach out for support, care for yourself, spend time with friends and family as you can. And if you ever want to talk about stuff or ask questions, please, feel free to PM me any time. My cancer was different but, some of the broader things'll be similar.
Fuck this shit. I am suffering from UC so an upside to that I guess is I get regular colonoscopies. I think I know what you mean when you say you're not feeling anything emotionally. Took me a week in the hospital for it to really sink in what the condition means for me and my outlook on life. Stay strong friend.
I understand a bit how you felt. I spent a lot of time in a colorectal surgery ward of a hospital a few months ago. If they do end up having to remove your colon, which happens for some people with colon cancer, and you have to wear an ostomy bag, it is a huge life change, but not as bad as you will probably think at first. I had my colon removed in September, and once I got mentally used to wearing a bag, I kind of feel bad for the people still using their butts to poop. Good luck in your treatment.
I suffered from UC as well, and felt nothing as well when I got my diagnosis, and when I found out I needed surgery. Just thought, oh, okay. I wouldn't wish UC on anyone. I feel so much better after having my colon removed.
Wish you the best! Seriously fuck cancer.
I used to live in Shizuoka (Hamamatsu) until 5 years ago. My company health check is coming up in two weeks as well...
Holy shit.
Holy shit.
I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(
Holy shit.
I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(
Yea I remember that study. It was posted here awhile back iirc.One of my deepest fears
I wish you the best OP
Hasn't been cancer ages been trending downward recently? Theres been enough high profile cases that I've seriously considered getting regular checks when I get around 28 years old.
So sorry to hear OP. It's scary to see how you can have very minor symptoms and think nothing of it.
I have an appointment myself with a cancer specialist later this month due to going from 165lbs to 135lbs in the last 12 months without really trying and aches and pains in my back.
I tell myself it's stress and poor posture, but nobody should ever just assume and should seek further tests and/or opinions just to be sure.
You seem to have a positive outlook though and at peace. Hopefully that brings positive results moving forward and having a great support system is also important and glad to hear you have that.
I was in between stage 3-4 (closer to 4) for my cancer. My only symptom was I was itchy as fuck, it got chalked up to ezcema/allergies. Is insane sometimes about how these things can fly under the radar
Will you have to have surgery?
I worked as an RN. Patients told me emotional support was the most important thing they had. I'm glad to see you have it.
The financial cost can be rough, I would make a plan on how to deal with the loss of income.
We all support you.
Holy shit.
I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(
Did you beat it? How are you doing now? I'm more worried about your condition now than mine :P
Thank you for the kind words, it really helps.
Holy shit.
I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(
Oh man, that sounds scary af. Any cases in your immediate family? That could provide some pointers.
Hey OP, hoping for the best for you and yours. You're incredibly brave. Same age as you and I don't think I could handle it the way you have.
This topic has definitely made me get my doctor to sort a colonoscopy out for me. Been having issues for almost a year and a half now, trying various different medicines and all negative tests.
My sister in law was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer late in 2019, and as of late 2020, she is in full remission. Keep your head up and follow all of the steps they lay out along the way. You CAN beat this. I've seen it recently.
Thanks everyone!
I'm 32, seems like yesterday Chadwick Boseman passed away and there was a thread floating on Era about more young men getting diagnosed with colon cancer (https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-are-young-guys-suddenly-getting-colon-cancer.277796/). Damn, time flies.
Yea with cancer not having pain is the biggest warning sign of advanced cancer of them all. Weird but true. When they were asking about symptoms, they were definitely hoping you would say you've experienced discomfort/pain.
Hang in there, tiger. Kick that cancer's ass. We expect a good report with your next updates!
Wishing you all the luck as you kick its ass. Fuck cancer. My mom was diagnosed with it last week, but we're hopeful that she caught it early enough.
I'm not quite out of the woods yet, I'm almost 2 years out from a bone marrow transplant now, and almost 5 years out from the initial diagnosis, and like a year and a half from the second cancer (my transplant had the side effect of causing a second cancer.). A Phase 1 clinical trial saved my ass from the second cancer.
Had a small scare for a few months just before Christmas but, things started to shrink again and I'm back to 3 monthly check ins rather than monthly and getting back to life as normal as I can manage so, despite not being entirely out, I'm doing well and my team is happy.
Hopefully, yours will be able to say the same <3
I was 21 when I got diagnosed with mine (though mine is a cancer that specifically hits young people) . Cancer is an indiscriminate bitch >:(
Sending you a hug op. My partners mother had a stage 4 cancer diagnosed in 2004. She was given not much time on this planet. She's still with us and very busy. Stay busy, stay safe.
My grandfather had non-hodgkin's lymphoma. He beat it.
Besides that I am not sure of any other history of cancer. His was found when he went in for a hernia repair.
Ironically I have two hernia's at the moment that require repair and could also be contributing to my discomfort. One in my groin and another in my diaphragm.
I'm 36 and tell my wife that I'm falling apart lol. Had a colonoscopy when I was 27 that diagnosed me with IBS & GERD and had my 2nd endoscopy a couple months ago that could provide nothing because inflammation was high. I'm stupid and don't take my meds for GERD because I haven't had symptoms, despite clearly having them lol.
Sorry to hear this. I can't believe you had no/minor symptoms and its Stage IV. I'm hearing way too much about young people getting this.
I've had symptoms which read like colon cancer for awhile now. I've done the stool test, ultrasound, colonoscopy(which i really had to push for because of my age)... and they didn't really find anything. Doctor said IBS and fatty liver. I wasn't satisfied so I pushed for a CT scan... which also found nothing.
Now I'm just trying to lose weight and hope that helps.
My sister in law was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer late in 2019, and as of late 2020, she is in full remission. Keep your head up and follow all of the steps they lay out along the way. You CAN beat this. I've seen it recently. It will be tough, but your friends and family will help you get through it. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.