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HououinKyouma

The Wise Ones
Member
Oct 27, 2017
8,387
Incredibly sorry to hear that, amoy. For what little it's worth, just know that your attitude is truly an inspiration to me.
 

Wubby

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,870
Japan!
Wish you the best! Seriously fuck cancer.

I used to live in Shizuoka (Hamamatsu) until 5 years ago. My company health check is coming up in two weeks as well...
 
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amoy

amoy

Member
Oct 28, 2017
1,230
Thanks everyone!

You're in my thoughts friend. May I ask how old you are?

I'm 32.

Best of luck OP, from across the pond in Australia. My dad is in a similar situation. Your story is hopefully a reminder for everyone to take the time and get checked out. Thinking of you mate. <3

Edit: he's stage IV too and his positive outlook has meant I've seen him enjoying life more than ever, and he's keeping it at bay. You can do the same OP. 🙏

That's great to hear.

I was a bit like you when I was diagnosed. I just went... Kind of numb until I got that first dose of chemo and the side effects started to kick in.

It kind of went in the pattern of family falling apart, me 'okay', then my family being 'okay' and me falling apart, and then back the other way. A social worker told me that was pretty common, it was just one of the things people never really talked about.

I wish you all the best, OP. Keep yourself in the best brainspace you can, don't be afraid to reach out for support, care for yourself, spend time with friends and family as you can. And if you ever want to talk about stuff or ask questions, please, feel free to PM me any time. My cancer was different but, some of the broader things'll be similar.

Did you beat it? How are you doing now? I'm more worried about your condition now than mine :P
Thank you for the kind words, it really helps.

Fuck this shit. I am suffering from UC so an upside to that I guess is I get regular colonoscopies. I think I know what you mean when you say you're not feeling anything emotionally. Took me a week in the hospital for it to really sink in what the condition means for me and my outlook on life. Stay strong friend.

Damn, UC is awful, hope you beat it.

I understand a bit how you felt. I spent a lot of time in a colorectal surgery ward of a hospital a few months ago. If they do end up having to remove your colon, which happens for some people with colon cancer, and you have to wear an ostomy bag, it is a huge life change, but not as bad as you will probably think at first. I had my colon removed in September, and once I got mentally used to wearing a bag, I kind of feel bad for the people still using their butts to poop. Good luck in your treatment.


I suffered from UC as well, and felt nothing as well when I got my diagnosis, and when I found out I needed surgery. Just thought, oh, okay. I wouldn't wish UC on anyone. I feel so much better after having my colon removed.

Thank you, I don't know how long the treatment will take, so I will have a lot of downtime to reflect :)
Good to hear you are doing better.

Wish you the best! Seriously fuck cancer.

I used to live in Shizuoka (Hamamatsu) until 5 years ago. My company health check is coming up in two weeks as well...

Hope nothing pops up!
 
Oct 25, 2017
41,368
Miami, FL
Yea with cancer not having pain is the biggest warning sign of advanced cancer of them all. Weird but true. When they were asking about symptoms, they were definitely hoping you would say you've experienced discomfort/pain.

Hang in there, tiger. Kick that cancer's ass. We expect a good report with your next updates!
 

Sonoran Dog

Member
Oct 27, 2017
143
USA
Wishing you all the luck as you kick its ass. Fuck cancer. My mom was diagnosed with it last week, but we're hopeful that she caught it early enough.
 

Huey

Member
Oct 27, 2017
13,288
OP, just want to say that you seem like a remarkably strong person and it's great to hear you have people supporting you. Oncology is doing amazing stuff these days, more so than many other fields of medicine so there is hope. If it helps to share your journey as it evolves, we'd be here to support you.
 

Psychotron

Member
Oct 26, 2017
5,683
I'm glad it was caught but I'm sorry for all you're going through. Keep fighting!

Do you have any history in your family of this condition?
 

CDX

Member
Oct 25, 2017
3,477
Fuck cancer. I wish you all the best. Stay strong.

I hate how common it is for cancer to go unnoticed until it's advanced.
 

RROCKMAN

Avenger
Oct 25, 2017
10,861
One of my deepest fears

I wish you the best OP
Holy shit.

I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(

Hasn't been cancer ages been trending downward recently? Theres been enough high profile cases that I've seriously considered getting regular checks when I get around 28 years old.
 

Euphoria

Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,611
Earth
Holy shit.

I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(

It can happen to anyone at any age. Men also tend to ignore symptoms and brush them off as nothing.

Always get your annual physicals and never hesitate to push for answers if you have concerns.

It's scary to think that for some people the only symptoms they experience when diagnosed with late stage cancers are unintentional weight loss and dull aches that they brush off. Sometimes only the weight loss alone is a symptom.
 

Vex

Member
Oct 25, 2017
22,213
One of my deepest fears

I wish you the best OP


Hasn't been cancer ages been trending downward recently? Theres been enough high profile cases that I've seriously considered getting regular checks when I get around 28 years old.
Yea I remember that study. It was posted here awhile back iirc.
 
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amoy

amoy

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Oct 28, 2017
1,230
So sorry to hear OP. It's scary to see how you can have very minor symptoms and think nothing of it.

I have an appointment myself with a cancer specialist later this month due to going from 165lbs to 135lbs in the last 12 months without really trying and aches and pains in my back.

I tell myself it's stress and poor posture, but nobody should ever just assume and should seek further tests and/or opinions just to be sure.

You seem to have a positive outlook though and at peace. Hopefully that brings positive results moving forward and having a great support system is also important and glad to hear you have that.

Oh man, that sounds scary af. Any cases in your immediate family? That could provide some pointers.

I was in between stage 3-4 (closer to 4) for my cancer. My only symptom was I was itchy as fuck, it got chalked up to ezcema/allergies. Is insane sometimes about how these things can fly under the radar

Yup, I kinda regret not going for a colonoscopy earlier once my tests came back negative rather just going "Ok".

Will you have to have surgery?
I worked as an RN. Patients told me emotional support was the most important thing they had. I'm glad to see you have it.
The financial cost can be rough, I would make a plan on how to deal with the loss of income.
We all support you.

I had one surgery to remove the polyp/blockage from my colon, now only medications as a viable treatment.

Holy shit.

I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(

I read this thread when it was first posted and had the same thought as you https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-are-young-guys-suddenly-getting-colon-cancer.277796/
 

Mendrox

Banned
Oct 26, 2017
9,439
Colon cancer fucking sucks. Almost no symptoms till its far advanced. My biggest fear.
 

laoni

Member
Oct 25, 2017
4,724
Did you beat it? How are you doing now? I'm more worried about your condition now than mine :P
Thank you for the kind words, it really helps.

I'm not quite out of the woods yet, I'm almost 2 years out from a bone marrow transplant now, and almost 5 years out from the initial diagnosis, and like a year and a half from the second cancer (my transplant had the side effect of causing a second cancer.). A Phase 1 clinical trial saved my ass from the second cancer.

Had a small scare for a few months just before Christmas but, things started to shrink again and I'm back to 3 monthly check ins rather than monthly and getting back to life as normal as I can manage so, despite not being entirely out, I'm doing well and my team is happy.

Hopefully, yours will be able to say the same <3

Holy shit.

I guess. I just thought stuff like this only happens to older people. Goddamn you're young. :'(

I was 21 when I got diagnosed with mine (though mine is a cancer that specifically hits young people) . Cancer is an indiscriminate bitch >:(
 
Oct 29, 2017
3,287
Sending you a hug op. My partners mother had a stage 4 cancer diagnosed in 2004. She was given not much time on this planet. She's still with us and very busy. Stay busy, stay safe.
 

The Albatross

Member
Oct 25, 2017
39,178
Oh my god, I'm so sorry to hear that for you and everyone who knows you. For fucks sake. 32, fucking hell. Wishing you and your fam only well wishes.
 

Euphoria

Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,611
Earth
Oh man, that sounds scary af. Any cases in your immediate family? That could provide some pointers.

My grandfather had non-hodgkin's lymphoma. He beat it.

Besides that I am not sure of any other history of cancer. His was found when he went in for a hernia repair.

Ironically I have two hernia's at the moment that require repair and could also be contributing to my discomfort. One in my groin and another in my diaphragm.

I'm 36 and tell my wife that I'm falling apart lol. Had a colonoscopy when I was 27 that diagnosed me with IBS & GERD and had my 2nd endoscopy a couple months ago that could provide nothing because inflammation was high. I'm stupid and don't take my meds for GERD because I haven't had symptoms, despite clearly having them lol.
 

metalslimer

Avenger
Oct 25, 2017
9,569
Wishing you well OP. Just had a colonoscopy yesterday for some concerns and it seems more and more like GI doctors are pushing to start screening people earlier. I feel like the Boseman case has really brought a lot of attention to it.
 

ZeroDS

"This guy are sick"
The Fallen
Oct 29, 2017
3,431
Hey OP, hoping for the best for you and yours. You're incredibly brave. Same age as you and I don't think I could handle it the way you have.

This topic has definitely made me get my doctor to sort a colonoscopy out for me. Been having issues for almost a year and a half now, trying various different medicines and all negative tests.
 

dem

Banned
Nov 3, 2017
900
Sorry to hear this. I can't believe you had no/minor symptoms and its Stage IV. I'm hearing way too much about young people getting this.


I've had symptoms which read like colon cancer for awhile now. I've done the stool test, ultrasound, colonoscopy(which i really had to push for because of my age)... and they didn't really find anything. Doctor said IBS and fatty liver. I wasn't satisfied so I pushed for a CT scan... which also found nothing.

Now I'm just trying to lose weight and hope that helps.
 

Euphoria

Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,611
Earth
Hey OP, hoping for the best for you and yours. You're incredibly brave. Same age as you and I don't think I could handle it the way you have.

This topic has definitely made me get my doctor to sort a colonoscopy out for me. Been having issues for almost a year and a half now, trying various different medicines and all negative tests.

If you feel you need it then get it done. It's honestly not even worth the stress that I see so many men get when topics of colonoscopy come up.

Yeah you shit your brains out the day prior but that's really the worst of it. You're knocked out for the procedure and I felt absolutely no discomfort afterwards. It felt like I nodded off for a few minutes and then woke.

Edit - NVM, I read this as if you were going to push for one but it appears you already had it done. :)
 

SoleSurvivor

Member
Oct 27, 2017
2,024
My sister in law was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer late in 2019, and as of late 2020, she is in full remission. Keep your head up and follow all of the steps they lay out along the way. You CAN beat this. I've seen it recently. It will be tough, but your friends and family will help you get through it. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
 

Euphoria

Member
Oct 25, 2017
9,611
Earth
My sister in law was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer late in 2019, and as of late 2020, she is in full remission. Keep your head up and follow all of the steps they lay out along the way. You CAN beat this. I've seen it recently.

Amazing story and happy to hear your sister in law has held it at bay. With a positive outlook and great support system a story like this is exactly what OP needs to see.

Thank you for sharing this.
 

McFly

Member
Nov 26, 2017
2,742
That's rough. Sending goodness thoughts and vibes your way. I admire your positive attitude.
 

gozu

Banned
Oct 27, 2017
10,442
America
Thanks everyone!



I'm 32, seems like yesterday Chadwick Boseman passed away and there was a thread floating on Era about more young men getting diagnosed with colon cancer (https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-are-young-guys-suddenly-getting-colon-cancer.277796/). Damn, time flies.

Jesus fucking christ. What a garbage hand you were dealt, OP. 32? Wtf? There was no way you would think to get a colonoscopy at 32. Not even at 40! It's only recommended at 50, and every 10 year after that.

Good luck amoy!
 

BobbeMalle

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Dec 5, 2017
2,019
Cancer scares the bejesus out of me. It's so "out of nowhere" sometimes that i can destroy your life in a matter of seconds.
I'm so sorry OP, keep up posted, we're here for you :)
 

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I'm very sorry to read this, OP. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through, and yet you're already facing it with a level of dignity and discretion that I don't think I'd be able to muster. We're with you, man!
 
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amoy

amoy

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Oct 28, 2017
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Thanks for the support everyone!

Yea with cancer not having pain is the biggest warning sign of advanced cancer of them all. Weird but true. When they were asking about symptoms, they were definitely hoping you would say you've experienced discomfort/pain.

Hang in there, tiger. Kick that cancer's ass. We expect a good report with your next updates!

Whenever the discomfort came by I went to my usual clinic, since the hemoglobin deficiency was just a tad below normal my doctor started treating me for anemia. Normally there were no other symptoms, like fatigue or anything else so I just carried on with my day, it wasn't debilitating. Things went off the rails in December, the polyp was causing a very slow bleeding that wasn't visible on stool, hence the very low hemoglobin levels in my last checkup.

Wishing you all the luck as you kick its ass. Fuck cancer. My mom was diagnosed with it last week, but we're hopeful that she caught it early enough.

Sorry to hear that, hoping for the best!

I'm not quite out of the woods yet, I'm almost 2 years out from a bone marrow transplant now, and almost 5 years out from the initial diagnosis, and like a year and a half from the second cancer (my transplant had the side effect of causing a second cancer.). A Phase 1 clinical trial saved my ass from the second cancer.

Had a small scare for a few months just before Christmas but, things started to shrink again and I'm back to 3 monthly check ins rather than monthly and getting back to life as normal as I can manage so, despite not being entirely out, I'm doing well and my team is happy.

Hopefully, yours will be able to say the same <3



I was 21 when I got diagnosed with mine (though mine is a cancer that specifically hits young people) . Cancer is an indiscriminate bitch >:(

OMG, you have been through so much. Great to hear you are doing well.

Sending you a hug op. My partners mother had a stage 4 cancer diagnosed in 2004. She was given not much time on this planet. She's still with us and very busy. Stay busy, stay safe.

That's great to hear!

My grandfather had non-hodgkin's lymphoma. He beat it.

Besides that I am not sure of any other history of cancer. His was found when he went in for a hernia repair.

Ironically I have two hernia's at the moment that require repair and could also be contributing to my discomfort. One in my groin and another in my diaphragm.

I'm 36 and tell my wife that I'm falling apart lol. Had a colonoscopy when I was 27 that diagnosed me with IBS & GERD and had my 2nd endoscopy a couple months ago that could provide nothing because inflammation was high. I'm stupid and don't take my meds for GERD because I haven't had symptoms, despite clearly having them lol.

Oh man, hopefully it's nothing aggressive like a cancer :/

Sorry to hear this. I can't believe you had no/minor symptoms and its Stage IV. I'm hearing way too much about young people getting this.


I've had symptoms which read like colon cancer for awhile now. I've done the stool test, ultrasound, colonoscopy(which i really had to push for because of my age)... and they didn't really find anything. Doctor said IBS and fatty liver. I wasn't satisfied so I pushed for a CT scan... which also found nothing.

Now I'm just trying to lose weight and hope that helps.

Damn, that's scary. Hope you can diagnose and sort it out and hopefully it's not cancer!

My sister in law was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer late in 2019, and as of late 2020, she is in full remission. Keep your head up and follow all of the steps they lay out along the way. You CAN beat this. I've seen it recently. It will be tough, but your friends and family will help you get through it. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it.

Thank you, that's great to hear.
 

donkey

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Oct 24, 2017
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Like everyone else here, good luck and sending loads of energy your way!

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harry the spy

Member
Oct 25, 2017
3,104
I'm really sorry, OP. Having Crohns, colon cancer is often on the back of my mind. How could the colonoscopy only show a polyp if you had stage 4 cancer? Seems hard to miss.