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Was it wrong for me to take a picture with my friends girlfriend?
- Thread starter Wise
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OP
OP
As others have said:
1. You did nothing wrong.
2. Your friend has serious problems.
3. Your friend's grilfriend should probably break up with him because that's preposterous behavior.
You shouldn't feel bad or let the fact people are behaving irrationally and illogically guilt you in to blaming yourself for their bad behavior.
1. You did nothing wrong.
2. Your friend has serious problems.
3. Your friend's grilfriend should probably break up with him because that's preposterous behavior.
You shouldn't feel bad or let the fact people are behaving irrationally and illogically guilt you in to blaming yourself for their bad behavior.
You didn't do a single thing wrong OP. Sounds like either your friend is insecure or the gf didn't tell him she would be out. Either way you're in the clear, taking pictures with folks when you're all having a good time isn't a crime.
OP
OP
That's it. That is really it. I'm not sure I even like girls in that kind of way tbh.
i cant imagine why you wouldn't be allowed unless you were both naked.
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uh oh...
i was kidding about posting the photo though. you dont have to if you don't want to.
There's nothing wrong with taking a picture in a club.
e: Definitely don't post the picture here.
e: Definitely don't post the picture here.
While I agree with others, if she wants you to delete it, I just would and if your friendship with this insecure person means more to you than being right, I'd try to smooth things out with him. We might think she should break up with him for this kind of red flag behavior, but if she doesn't want to, I wouldn't keep the picture that might be a sore spot for them. Once your friend calms down, you might try pointing out how bad this kind of behavior looks.
You don't really have to justify anything, you could have a full on crush on the girl and what you did would still not be wrong.
It's just a pic with a friend.
OP
OP
I wish i could post the picture but with her face blurred or scribbled out or something but I feel it might still violate rules here.
He hand was on my shoulders and my hand was just not on her
How strange. It sounds like your friend is really insecure and you have nothing to feel bad about.
If I was your friend, I'd be happy that my friend and GF got along enough to want to take a picture together. Like, what does he want, the opposite? Where you just stay as far away from his girlfriend as possible?
If I was your friend, I'd be happy that my friend and GF got along enough to want to take a picture together. Like, what does he want, the opposite? Where you just stay as far away from his girlfriend as possible?
OP
OP
I'll ask a mod just to be sure or if a mod could reply to this post
This is first ever girlfriend insecurities. Unless there's more going on that were not privy to...
Yeah that makes somewhat more sense. Even then, if OP and the friend's GF were doing something they shouldn't have, why the fuck would they take a picture together? Like you said, no one should be mad at OP.
She was out on the flex and told him something else. Now he's mad.
Which is lame cos if he is mad, it should be directed to her. Ive known dudes in the past whos girls kissed on someone and they got mad at the guy.
At the same time if you're forbidding your girl from places it ain't gonna last.
Which is lame cos if he is mad, it should be directed to her. Ive known dudes in the past whos girls kissed on someone and they got mad at the guy.
At the same time if you're forbidding your girl from places it ain't gonna last.
If the woman in the picture wants you to delete it, posting it to a forum online seems like a pretty shitty thing to do, no?
You already described the picture and that's enough.
The only thing that's relevant now is whether or not she was gonna be there.
Either he did and he's psychotic or he didn't and she never told him she was going to the club which depending on how far along the relationship is and how often they communicate is either a non-factor and he's still psychotic or she lied to him lol
lol. yeah. VERY weird. i wonder if that friend is the same person that actually took the pic or knew it was taken. dump that friend too, OP.
OP
OP
Yea, the evidence seems to suggest that neither OP or the girlfriend realized that his bf was gonna react that way. Or people were drunk and weren't thinking about the consequences (most likely)
OP
OP
I am in a relationship and I've literally been hiking with just one other girl friend, taken pictures together, posted them on social media, and NOTHING HAPPENS. There is some genuine distrust or insecurity going on in the situation you described. Super strange behavior all around.
OP, your friend is a damn clown and both of them need to grow up. Stuff like this is really not that deep, and I'm sure they've got some trust issues going on that they're hiding from everyone and this photo probably just triggered it.
You didn't cross any boundary and this is some stupid shit for someone to get upset at. Tell them to fuck off and grow up.