So, here's a thing that bothers me.
I, too, had family that suffered dementia/Alzheimer's. My granduncle died of dementia in hospice a little over 8 years ago after suffering it for a decade; my paternal grandfather died of Alzheimer's on New Year's Eve in 2016 after declining for over a decade; my maternal grandfather shot himself in the head and died in my grandparents' basement after he suffered a stroke and couldn't handle the prospect of declining from it. I've dealt pretty well with those things all told.
But, this site has a constant, steady stream of topics regarding people who are suicidal, anxious or depressed enough to at least have suicidal ideation, people so upset by abstractions in the world that have yet to affect them or never will yet they will crow endlessly about the mental toll those abstractions place upon them, among other things. And they are given as much care as seems can be over the anonymizing effects of the internet, an approach that recognizes that reality and perception don't align and can't align in the human head.
So where is the goddamn sympathy for those of us who find language of dismissal, harm, and outright conspiracy theory regarding topics like dementia/Alzheimer's? Is it because we seem like a hardier crew that can stand it? If so, that seems like a fucking travesty.