I didn't say I agree with them, I just think that's how they rationalize still saying, "I am a good person that will go to heaven," with, "But I want to do horrible things that, theoretically my Bible says I am breaking commandants on."
The only way they can justify their terrible acts and still think they're going to heaven is by saying it's only horrible when it happens to people, and then finding ways to disqualify anyone they do said horrible acts to as a person, so they can still see themselves in a heroic light. It's the classic dilemma of wanting to be a hero, while wanting to act like a villain, without the moral consequences.
When people ask, "How can anyone that wants to think of themselves as a decent human being do this?" That's how. That's how millions of people who claim to love Christian principles close one eye and turn away when those principles become inconvenient to their dominance of the culture.
