I've been reading the exchange between D65 and Power of Sparda...
Sorry, ethnic pride? All she knows is growing up in Manchester. She speaks Manc, gets pissed like a Manc, and grew up in its culture no different from a white person. It's her home and culture. Her DNA does not deny her that. And the only reason I'm bringing this up further is because if you said that her identifying as English is loaded language I'm sure she'd punch you.
The only people who don't treat her or see her as a brit are people who can only see the race she represents.
Of course she's Asian and she knows it but when people will never assume Manchester is her despite because she isn't white that sucks. I know what THAT feeling is like. When other Chinese students see her and get confused why an Asian girl doesn't understand their language it's ignorance on their part.
I understand the importance of those who want to link with their heritage but not everyone does so in the way you prefer and that's okay, it's up to that person.
Interesting...
It sounds like you're making it sound like identity is viewed as Zero Sum - that's ssssooooooooo American!
I'm Canadian, and of Vietnamese descent. In Canada, the ideal that
we strive to live up to every day is that identity is NOT zero sum. Immigrants to Canada, like myself and my family, are encouraged to not abandon their cultural roots. They can be Canadian just as they are. Identity is not zero sum.
I am Canadian.
I am Vietnamese.
There is no conflict or contradiction in me declaring both of those statements.
As our current Prime Minister declared: "A Canadian is a Canadian is a Canadian!"
I've lived in Canada since I was 2 years old. I know Canadian culture, more specifically Vancouver culture, very well. I also know Vietnamese culture very well. I even speak fluent Vietnamese. I find that one of the great benefits of having 2 cultural roots is that you can pick and choose the good from each, and, call out and reject the shit from each.
It isn't self hate haha. All she knows and is, is British and she has a problem where her peers don't see her as so. It's all based on her outside appearance that causes no one to just expect that maybe she's English?
Given how multi-ethnic the UK is, and how LONG it's been that multi-ethnic for, don't people see her as Manchester as soon as she opens her mouth and makes it obvious from her mannerisms that she is Manchester???
She doesn't want to be seen as white she has grown up in and knows only UK culture.
She's the most Manc person I know. Hell I'm from London half of us aren't even white anyway.
She
ONLY knows UK culture?
She has no idea about ANY of the following?
- Chinese food, using chopsticks, the etiquette surrounding eating and sharing a meal with others
- Taking off your shoes when entering a home
- Additional respect to elders, not because they've earned it, but for no reason other than they are elders
- Lunar New Year, red envelopes
- Respect and memorializing of ones ancestors (AKA: Ancestor "worship")
- Mid Autumn Festival, Moon Cakes
- The importance placed upon filial piety
- Chinese Wedding customs (She's never been to a Chinese wedding"???)
- Chinese Funeral Customs (She's never been to a funeral of a Chinese person, or person of Chinese descent?)
You sure that she only knows UK culture??? Or are you speaking on her behalf based on your assumptions?