I remember this vividly when I went to college. It was a rather expensive school on the northeast. Not Ivy League but it had a lot Rich Kids.
But the Rich kids were in denial it seems. One had a brand new SUV bought by dad. He went on regular ski trips and international vacations. But when we would chat he would say his middle class. I get he wasn't rich rich. But he was clearly upper middle class at least.
I remember working two part time jobs, including Friday and weekends shifts and this guy was getting hammered at frat parties. I was like, must be nice lol.I wondered where did he get all this money without a job. Obviously it was parental support and no shame there.
But that was an interesting revelation on how the well off can think they're Regular Joes. I continued to notice this throughout college and when I went into the working world.
I get no one wants to be a braggart, but there was also a delusion coming from him that he was a regular dude.
Why are well off people so unaware they're well off?
But the Rich kids were in denial it seems. One had a brand new SUV bought by dad. He went on regular ski trips and international vacations. But when we would chat he would say his middle class. I get he wasn't rich rich. But he was clearly upper middle class at least.
I remember working two part time jobs, including Friday and weekends shifts and this guy was getting hammered at frat parties. I was like, must be nice lol.I wondered where did he get all this money without a job. Obviously it was parental support and no shame there.
But that was an interesting revelation on how the well off can think they're Regular Joes. I continued to notice this throughout college and when I went into the working world.
I get no one wants to be a braggart, but there was also a delusion coming from him that he was a regular dude.
Why are well off people so unaware they're well off?