Today my daughter and I were paid a visit by two lovely ladies from Child Protective Services. They informed me that they had gotten an anonymous call because my wife and I had been heard yelling at our daughter.
At this point my brain shut down a bit. Like .. of course we yell at her when she's in trouble? I explained that typically we will talk to her/explain/redirect but when she's continuously breaking the rules yes we will yell at her or threaten to yell. There was a whole interview that followed and they explained that yelling is emotional abuse and can slow down a child's development.
Meanwhile my daughter is an amazing little girl who just got moved up to "big class" because she's smart and incredible. Now I've apparently been emotionally abusing her because I yell at her when she's in trouble? I'm so upset. Like am I going to lose my kid now? Do I need to call a lawyer?
My wife was still at work so that was a fun call to make informing her that CPS had stopped by.
I really just want to vent because I'm so upset and terrified about anything happening to my daughter.
At this point my brain shut down a bit. Like .. of course we yell at her when she's in trouble? I explained that typically we will talk to her/explain/redirect but when she's continuously breaking the rules yes we will yell at her or threaten to yell. There was a whole interview that followed and they explained that yelling is emotional abuse and can slow down a child's development.
Meanwhile my daughter is an amazing little girl who just got moved up to "big class" because she's smart and incredible. Now I've apparently been emotionally abusing her because I yell at her when she's in trouble? I'm so upset. Like am I going to lose my kid now? Do I need to call a lawyer?
My wife was still at work so that was a fun call to make informing her that CPS had stopped by.
I really just want to vent because I'm so upset and terrified about anything happening to my daughter.