I don't know much about any dirt on Musk that might be out there, but I think the Zuckerberg trial memes and saying things like "[insert person with autistic vibes here] doesn't know anything about human interaction" and shaming them for that is indicative of some prejudice towards autistic personality quirks in people. Not everyone is realistically capable of having high emotional intelligence and that's not something to be shamed unless they do something truly fucked up.
You're also coming across as reductive and kinda sexist towards Grimes imo. Saying "she likes him because he has a lot of money" is unfounded and probably isn't accurate as much as "he has prowess, success, and social capital that makes him come off as more attractive". Nobody should be shamed for choosing a partner for those reasons because it's very common. Being a little bit shallow is hardly a crime. It's reasonable to feel frustrated that more people aren't open/transparent about that being their thing because it would save those they turn down for that reason some heartache if they would just be honest about preferring a partner with more success who arguably isn't a better person than who is being rejected. A lot of times choices like that are framed like "Sorry, I just have higher standards for those who I date and only ever choose partners who have the highest amount of morality and ethics that match those standards, which you don't" which is often disingenuous and hurtful. But on some level that's understandable because the person being rejected might attack their character for having dating preferences.
But there isn't any indication of Grimes doing this at all and it's unfair and kinda douchey to suggest she's a gold digger.
Did you even read my post? I went out of my way to point out that Grimes isn't a gold digger, so I think it's douchey that you'd suggest I called her one when I explicitly did not. I doubt she actually needs the money, but meant she's attracted to the social capital of being a billionaire, which is a totally human response. There are very little people with attraction to men that wouldn't date Elon because of this, which again, I mentioned already.
And I wasn't implying that Elon was autistic, I meant that he was a shitty person with terrible social skills. He literally told his wife that if she was his employee, he'd fire her. He treats his actual employees like garbage, he treats the women in his life like his employees, and he has a cult of personality that he leans on to shield himself from actual introspection. On his wedding day, he told his wife that he was the "alpha" in their relationship. I'm not concerned with whether or not he's autistic, it just seems obvious that he sucks.
And I'm not shaming Grimes, before today I have never even heard of her. I just think it's amusing seeing so many lefties on Twitter lose their minds over this like she betrayed them (because she herself is a socialist from what I gather). The normal reaction to when a billionaire wants to date you is to say yes, it isn't some personal transgression, it's being human.
Nice try putting words in my mouth though.
