Had a date with a girl lined up, but i sent her a text telling how horrible my mindset around dating is right now. she was super cool and wants to meet up as friends. I'm down.
Played pool with a group of friends, theres a girl in the group who's a fucking bombshell that I just met. shes super dope. but she smokes and drinks too much for me, but i couldnt stop thinking about her all night. she said she wanted to go golfing with me, and that sounds fun. I can never be friends with attractive women who are single, maybe i can give this one a shot, considering we're a part of the same friends group and im ultra depressed right now. wish me luck. I think just taking my time and not wanting anything from it will help with my scarcity mindset.
Oh wait, i dont even know if shes single. Even better!
heck yeah dude! i'll definitely message if things start taking shape a little bit. As of now, i'm super duper depressed and have so much work to do until mid-march, but i think the rest of the year might be somewhat of a sabbatical for me. Perhaps then we can start formalizing things :)
Played pool with a group of friends, theres a girl in the group who's a fucking bombshell that I just met. shes super dope. but she smokes and drinks too much for me, but i couldnt stop thinking about her all night. she said she wanted to go golfing with me, and that sounds fun. I can never be friends with attractive women who are single, maybe i can give this one a shot, considering we're a part of the same friends group and im ultra depressed right now. wish me luck. I think just taking my time and not wanting anything from it will help with my scarcity mindset.
Oh wait, i dont even know if shes single. Even better!
Facebook and YouTube exist because nerds wanted a way to meet people so why not. Control and responsibility/agency aren't always different behaviours
The Apps are very skill based matchmaking where attractiveness/desirability = Skill tier. Thing is everyone wants to be dating S rank people. So the apps will show you these people even if you're in B rank or lower in order to try and get you to spend money to contact these people.
For S rank people the apps try and keep them engaged with an abundance of choice. They are farming these people. Saying Hey please stay on our platform look at all these 100+ options and creating a paralysis of choice. Dating apps work very well for S rank people if they have self control and can manage their energy and be willing to accept "good enough" connections. Filtering tends to be the biggest challenge in this tier
Aka when your seeing 100 people with perfect bodies and great careers, how can you tell who you will actually connect with.
The apps have a systemic bias against certain demographics and if you want to create a system without these institutional bias' I think that's a reasonable conclusion to make given what's before you.
If you're putting together a team to build an app I'd be keen to be a part of the process. I can't code for shit but I'm great on the idea side in a brainstorming capacity and I'm decent at data analysis
heck yeah dude! i'll definitely message if things start taking shape a little bit. As of now, i'm super duper depressed and have so much work to do until mid-march, but i think the rest of the year might be somewhat of a sabbatical for me. Perhaps then we can start formalizing things :)
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