Hey everyone,
I'm currently on vacation and so is my boss. I recieved an offer from the government (I'm currently in the private sector). It's a higher paying job and I have more vacation days. It's probably easier too (less variety and sounded easier... But also slightly boring). There were some other drawbacks to the job (probationary employment, which I cut in half, but couldn't get rid of). That was the dealbreaker for me, really. But my current boss doesn't need those details (didn't ask for them either).
I called up my boss and told him about the offer. I also told him that I didn't seek them out, nor that I intended to switch, and however enticing the offer might be, I still want my current job. Which is true.
So I essentially asked him to try and match it as best he can. He wrote their offer down and told me he'd be back.
I haven't been in this particular situation before, but man... Why the hell do I feel guilty for doing this? 😅
It feels like I'm extorting my current employeer. It doesn't help that I wasn't super satisfied with my salary increase, but the timing almost seems off.
I didn't go looking for another job, but it might be percieved that way.
Was this a mistake on my part? I don't want to erode any trust with my current employeer.
I'm currently on vacation and so is my boss. I recieved an offer from the government (I'm currently in the private sector). It's a higher paying job and I have more vacation days. It's probably easier too (less variety and sounded easier... But also slightly boring). There were some other drawbacks to the job (probationary employment, which I cut in half, but couldn't get rid of). That was the dealbreaker for me, really. But my current boss doesn't need those details (didn't ask for them either).
I called up my boss and told him about the offer. I also told him that I didn't seek them out, nor that I intended to switch, and however enticing the offer might be, I still want my current job. Which is true.
So I essentially asked him to try and match it as best he can. He wrote their offer down and told me he'd be back.
I haven't been in this particular situation before, but man... Why the hell do I feel guilty for doing this? 😅
It feels like I'm extorting my current employeer. It doesn't help that I wasn't super satisfied with my salary increase, but the timing almost seems off.
I didn't go looking for another job, but it might be percieved that way.
Was this a mistake on my part? I don't want to erode any trust with my current employeer.