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kaytee

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Oct 28, 2017
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USA
Curiously enough, Twitter is one of the better communities as far as positivity goes for me. I try to only follow people who encourage positivity and share cool things, which I think helps reduce the amount of people who thrive on complaining and attacking.

Oh man, I'm so jealous... I need it for work unfortunately, or I really wouldn't be on there. I only follow people I like, but somehow negative stuff still winds up on my feed. Some of its political stuff, which I usually don't mind at all. But something about Twitter as a platform itself stresses me out. I think because everything has to be so short and punchy and attention-grabbing. And having it all mixed together with innocuous posts just freaks out my brain or something. On other platforms, it's easier for me to just keep scrolling if I don't want to engage with a topic at that moment. But often on Twitter, I've already read the entire tweet before I've had time to think about it.

There is a good conversation to be had about how much insulation is healthy for a person. I'm sure it's different depending on whom and where in their life they are. I know I've made liberal usage of ignore features on platforms that support them.

Definitely. I think it's important to engage with ideas you don't understand or agree with and sometimes that means an article/post can put you a little on edge. But I usually reserve that for more important things (like politics haha) and not necessarily video games. Sometimes I just want to talk to other people who also like a thing. Or at least not engage with people who will be hostile with me for liking a thing.

And while I don't know how much more common this is in male-dominated spaces, I'd say it's common in male nerd-dominated spaces. I think many people drawn to traditionally nerdy things often feel inadequate in some way. We all know how common having to prove yourself as a "real nerd" is; that doesn't come from nowhere. Sometimes it's like you're taking a damn test about your own relaxing hobby. It also doesn't help that some people tie way too much of their life to videogames, so that any sort of deviation from their "center" is seen as a personal attack. It's compounded by the fact that because they're being aggressive, they think other people are too.

That meshes a lot with my own experience, but I know I also tend to hang out in nerdy spaces online. I absolutely agree that it often feels like I've accidentally gotten into an argument when I was just trying to talk. A lot of the time I feel the need to talk someone down before I actually get to the rest of my post.

I'm sick of typing up a paragraph or two, and someone comes along and picks out one sentence and hyper-focuses on it. I don't even engage then. It's obvious they aren't interested in a conversation.

I hate this. They really are just there to argue when that happens.
 

Platy

Member
Oct 25, 2017
27,703
Brazil
Oh man, I'm so jealous... I need it for work unfortunately, or I really wouldn't be on there. I only follow people I like, but somehow negative stuff still winds up on my feed. Some of its political stuff, which I usually don't mind at all. But something about Twitter as a platform itself stresses me out. I think because everything has to be so short and punchy and attention-grabbing. And having it all mixed together with innocuous posts just freaks out my brain or something. On other platforms, it's easier for me to just keep scrolling if I don't want to engage with a topic at that moment. But often on Twitter, I've already read the entire tweet before I've had time to think about it.

Twitter works best when you think of it as a RSS feed.

Not liking what you are watching? just unfollow. It is no facebook, it is not like the person is not your FRIEND anymore

Flooding too much? just unfollow. Maybe deactivate retweets?
 

Nilou

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Oct 25, 2017
9,715
I just posted on a Pubg mobile Facebook group because the servers are down.

I now at 25 message requests.

Mistakes were made.

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Sorry that happened though.
 

Morrigan

Spear of the Metal Church
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Oct 24, 2017
34,362
So I finally got around to reading Rat Queens. I'm almost done with vol. 3 and this is good shit so far. Anyone else read it?
 

Morrigan

Spear of the Metal Church
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Oct 24, 2017
34,362
Still pretty dope so far! But I heard there were problems with the writers/artists or something (not sure exactly) and vol. 4 is a "soft reboot" or something... I dunno, my SO was starting to tell me this and then I interrupted him and said "I'm not done with vol. 3 yet!" and he stopped and chuckled because he was probably about to reveal some spoilers haha. But yeah I'm keeping my expectations in check for when I get to vol. 4, sadly.

But the rest is still worth reading so far! A lot more character development going on, and still as funny and entertaining.
 

Fauxpaw

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Oct 25, 2017
330
Well that's exciting then. I'll be happy for at least three volumes!

I dunno if anyone here has read Paper Girls? It's by the same author as Saga. It follows this band of girls in 1980s Ohio, and weird inter-dimensional shit happens. I've read three volumes so far and have been enjoying it quite a bit!
 

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Thanks for the invite! Don't have any particularly useful recipe to share, unfortunately, nobody likes German cakes. They certainly don't measure up to those brownies O.o

Please slap me when some threads make me a bit cranky.
 
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weemadarthur

weemadarthur

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Oct 25, 2017
10,606
German cakes aren't so bad.
Black forest cake is the only one I know though lol. Leave out the kirsch and it's great!

And we can't slap you when we're too busy facepalming ourselves.
 

Calliope

One Winged Slayer
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Oct 27, 2017
2,124
Detroit, MI
Thanks so much for the invite! I haven't wandered outside of my subscriptions in a while so it was nice to get the reminder there's a life outside of them lol.
 

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Nobody like german cakes? whaaaa

My friend's mom used to make german chocolate cake from scratch, it was so good. All of the food she made was amazing.
 

LunaSerena

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Oct 25, 2017
3,525
Damn, this thread is making me want to go eat something sweet. All those cakes look delicious!

Maybe I should make pancakes this weekend...
 

LunaSerena

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Oct 25, 2017
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Ugggggh!!

I'm trying to diet but I'm an idiot for sweets, and those pancakes look awesome! Do you make them from scratch or do you use a pre mix?
 

Nilou

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Oct 25, 2017
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Ugggggh!!

I'm trying to diet but I'm an idiot for sweets, and those pancakes look awesome! Do you make them from scratch or do you use a pre mix?

Thanks! I usually make them with the pre-mix stuff as it's a bit easier/cheaper but I have made them from scratch when I ran out of box mix. The top image was from a pre-mix, the bottom was from scratch.
 

Nilou

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Oct 25, 2017
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Thanks! Yeah pancakes are one one true food skill. My mother never liked making them as she found them a huge pain to make and were always messy (tasty though) when she made them. So when I was old enough I practiced a bunch to make them myself. Now as an adult I can easily make perfectly round and aesthetically pleasing pancakes every time I make them! Pretty fun to make too.
 

Calliope

One Winged Slayer
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Oct 27, 2017
2,124
Detroit, MI
I have to laugh because my mother struggled to make pancakes as well. My dad would lovingly call them pancakes from space because they would always turn out in all various shapes and sizes. She really hated making them but once you label something 'from space' of course kids are going to want to eat them!

I've never actually tried to make pancakes on my own despite doing a fair amount of cooking. I'll have to give them a try if only to see the results.
 

LunaSerena

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Oct 25, 2017
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I've tried only once - those kind of pancakes aren't common at all here in Chile but they became a guilty pleasure when I was abroad in the US - and they were ugly. Like, very ugly and the first one was burnt.

But I want to try again - they're really tasty and are lovely for dinner!