User banned (1 week): advocating child abuse, doubling down, accumulated infractions
1)I'm of jamacian heritage
2) Kids nowdays don't get beat enough. Sorry.
2) Kids nowdays don't get beat enough. Sorry.
1)I'm of jamacian heritage
2) Kids nowdays don't get beat enough. Sorry.
My dad would hit me across the back, ass and back of thighs with both ends of his leather belt as punishment.
I mean, it did work as punishment but it also left me with other emotional issues. I don't think I'd hit my potential children as punishment, but I've forever been put off wanting kids as I'm afraid my issues would impact them.
My life would be destroyed if someone took me away from my parents, and I would never forgive the spanking vigilante that called on them. Especially for something like a slap on the butt, during which my parents even explained why it was happening and hugged me afterwards? Anyone who reports that and ruins my life is an asshole, straight up.No balls necessary, guy admitted to it. I'd be ok with CPS giving him a visit. Hitting your kids and then hugging them right after is gonna fuck them up in all kinds of ways
Switch "Kids" with any type of person/gender/ethnicity, how does that sound? Why should children of all people be ones deserving of being beat?
The "I turned out fine" thing always makes me laugh. Says who? How do you know you turned out fine? Can you really the best judge of your own mental health and stability? And perhaps most importantly, does this somehow justify abusing a child as long as they "turn out okay" in the end?
It's truly disturbing logic that falls apart the moment you start thinking about it.
Going to be honest, I don't think it's worth having a discussion about this here. It's pretty obvious that I will be dogpiled to oblivion with people trying their best to pick apart my every word to find something to argue.
I think what you are asking is false equivalence but it really doesn't matter. The OP asked two questions and I answered them. I'm in no mood to debate my opinion on this, especially not here.
I honestly believe we have all these alt right assholes now because parents didn't discipline for shit.
Let their kids act and say whatever with no repercussions.
Agreed completely. I would hope people here can see the difference between beatings and getting spanked on the butt too. As a kid, I could. I'm fine if you're against it all (I am too now), but let's not lump it all into these extremes.My life would be destroyed if someone took me away from my parents, and I would never forgive the spanking vigilante that called on them. Especially for something like a slap on the butt, during which my parents even explained why it was happening and hugged me afterwards? Anyone who reports that and ruins my life is an asshole, straight up.
Yes, we have a bunch of people with corrupted ideas about personal safety and a belief in violence as a basic interaction because parents didn't hit their kids enough.
This.1. Yes.
2. I am for this being banned as 40 plus countries have already done so.
See, I think for some people, the humbling needs to come when they're older and able to understand why it's happening. Life teaches me there are some dudes who just need some sense beat into them. Even on this forum, you got dudes who mouth off over the dumbest things and get real aggressive. It's cos they ain't ever been checked for their bullshit. All the sarcasm and mockery, it'd set them real straight and real quick at that if someone handed their ass to them.Even if their parents didn't hit them, they still ended up as shit stains.
Sooo....
Indian and same. Never got spanked without reason. Never too much. Very few occasions. Thought me respect and manners.
That takes a lot of balls to accuse a father of child abuse. Out of curiosity do you think social services should come to Kinggroin's home and take away his children? Honest question.
I dont think paddles or belts should be used. But a rare (as in, not common) slap or spank can be shock therapy for a child. It makes them evaluate how they were being a little shit and associate bad behavior with that result.
Child abuse isnt just physical, it can be other methods too. By that same token, not all physical punishment by parents is abuse imo.
1)I'm of jamacian heritage
2) Kids nowdays don't get beat enough. Sorry.
Stick with it. I'm sure you can work out this logical conundrum on your own.Even if their parents didn't hit them, they still ended up as shit stains.
Sooo....
Yes. I think it was wrong and people shouldn't do it anymore.
I'm not saying people who do are bad people, they probably don't know it's actually bad for kids. Plus I can understand that if you get particularly heated people may lash out, it's not okay, but I understand.
Question for the pro-spankers: If spanking was truly effective, why would you ever have to do it more than once?
Even if their parents didn't hit them, they still ended up as shit stains.
Sooo....
These threads always make me angry and frustrated (don't know if we've had it before here, but we did at the old place). So many people with horrible opinions on how to properly raise children, at a forum which otherwise generally seems rather liberal and enlightened. Sad to see.