Despite a few good things, 2018 continues to be a real bad year and there's no telling how it may end. It started with my mother passing away totally out of the blue and having to bring my dog to the vet because her last stop had been reached.
Then in March my stepfather had an accident and things looked real bad for a minute but after the hospital visit things looked up. The doctor however did say they noticed that his lymph gland was a bit too big and they wanted him to come back to the hospital for that in April.
So the first good thing was that things were looking up for him and the second good thing was my new dog, who is doing really well. Ever since my mom passed away the bond between me and my stepfather has really gotten strong, it was strong already but it's even stronger now.
Yesterday he had to come back one last time to the hospital for the results on the lymph gland that was just too big. Turns out he has prostate cancer. Very little else is known. Immediately I asked him in what stage it was, what his chances of living are and he just doesn't know. He actually is really calm about it. Within 14 days they want him to come back and see if it can be removed and then we will know more.
Nowadays cancer doesn't mean it's over for you necessarily right? It can be treated. But I assume it all depends on for how long the cancer has been there. Anyone here knew/know someone that had/has it? Or maybe yourself? I don't want to talk to him about it too much, it'll only get him more down but maybe people can tell me their experience perhaps, just so I can kinda know what to expect.
Then in March my stepfather had an accident and things looked real bad for a minute but after the hospital visit things looked up. The doctor however did say they noticed that his lymph gland was a bit too big and they wanted him to come back to the hospital for that in April.
So the first good thing was that things were looking up for him and the second good thing was my new dog, who is doing really well. Ever since my mom passed away the bond between me and my stepfather has really gotten strong, it was strong already but it's even stronger now.
Yesterday he had to come back one last time to the hospital for the results on the lymph gland that was just too big. Turns out he has prostate cancer. Very little else is known. Immediately I asked him in what stage it was, what his chances of living are and he just doesn't know. He actually is really calm about it. Within 14 days they want him to come back and see if it can be removed and then we will know more.
Nowadays cancer doesn't mean it's over for you necessarily right? It can be treated. But I assume it all depends on for how long the cancer has been there. Anyone here knew/know someone that had/has it? Or maybe yourself? I don't want to talk to him about it too much, it'll only get him more down but maybe people can tell me their experience perhaps, just so I can kinda know what to expect.