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Fiction

Fanthropologist
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Oct 25, 2017
6,729
Elf Tower, New Mexico
Hello everyone, it's time for another episode of Sex Ed with Fiction. For years and years I've been educating folks in various threads about the female anatomy, sex in general, and answering questions. I finally was convinced to make an actual thread. Any and all questions are welcome. Don't be embarrassed, we all know how the education system in America failed in this regard.

This is a thread for all sex questions. My expertise is limited to the female side of things. People are welcome to ask questions about or create a general post such as this about gay sex, male anatomy, etc. I will link those posts in the op, just let me know you made one :)

First, let's start with the basics, things I've addressed multiple times in this community:

The female reproductive system:
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I'm sure everyone has seen something like this, but it's good to refresh.

Sidenote: the endometrium is what causes periods. It prepares for pregnancy every month. Fills with extra blood and tissue to nourish a growing embryo. When an egg isn't implanted in that 'nest', all of that work sloughs off and gets flushed out.


But that diagram does not really tell you much does it? It seems a lot of people think the clitoris would be shown there.

But no. The key to (most) female pleasure is not even in the vagina.

vagina-anatomy-outer.jpg

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Remember that porn is unrealistic. Your size compared to them is fine. In fact, too long can be super painful. Anyone who learns to use foreplay can please most women.

Advice: be gentle with the clitoris my dudes, especially at first. Go harder if she wants. The key is consistency. Find a pattern she likes, and keep doing it. Usually circling around the clit will be a good way to start things off. If her breathing gets whiny and reedy, keep doing exactly what you are doing. Don't press harder unless she asks.

And now, I open the floor to questions. Anyone can answer questions too, just make sure you are not spreading misinformation.

Also:

When a veiled sarcastic comment leads to the creation of a useful thread. Low key tip for everyone in the thread: The key to having good sex is actually talking about sex with the person you're having sex with, while generalizations can be useful people are individuals and what works for one person doesn't work for all of them.

Helpful Links:
The Dick Hygiene Thread
https://www.resetera.com/threads/dick-hygiene-101-an-introduction-to-a-pleasant-penis.25228/
 
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Fiction

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Oct 25, 2017
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Elf Tower, New Mexico
Is it a thing? Yes indeed. What is squirt juice exactly? Probably pee


What he said.

The science is mixed, it seems to have the same chemistry as diluted urine. But it's a real thing that happens to some women. Never happened to me.

The theory is that all those muscles contracting during orgasm causes the urine to expel. I find this plausible, since after an orgasm I actually have trouble peeing.

Girls: ALWAYS PEE AFTER SEX. This helps prevent UTIs.

GUYS: ALWAYS PEE AFTER SEX. ESPECIALLY IF YOU DIDN'T USE A CONDOM.
 
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AliceAmber

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May 2, 2018
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Great thread topic!!!!

For women is it more hygienic to keep pubes at least trimmed?
 
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Oct 25, 2017
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Elf Tower, New Mexico
do most women fake orgasms

We like orgasms as much as you do. But we also know it's a serious hit to your manhood if we don't climax.

So yes, it happens. I wouldn't say most. Some women have trouble reaching orgasm and some never have.

If you suspect she is faking, at least you know she cares. Ask what you can do to make it better for her without letting on you suspect she's faking. Tell her to tell you exactly what to do. Best way to learn.
 
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Poyunch

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Oct 25, 2017
2,359
Somewhat off-topic but my favorite part of sex-ed as a kid was everyone learning about blowjobs and one of the kids worryingly asking what if we accidentally pee in the person's mouth.
 
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Fiction

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Oct 25, 2017
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Elf Tower, New Mexico
Great thread topic!!!!

For women is it more hygienic to keep pubes at least trimmed?

It's actually not, and I keep mine trimmed even knowing that. Pubic hair keeps the chance of infections lower, as bare can cause chafing and the hair traps bacteria away from the body.

Washing every day with a feminine hygiene soap (never regular soap) is enough to stay clean.

Mindblowing bonus fact: douches are actually dangerous. They introduce bacteria into the body and wash out all the natural things that keep vaginas healthy.
 

Smash-It Stan

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Oct 25, 2017
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Somewhat off-topic but my favorite part of sex-ed as a kid was everyone learning about blowjobs and one of the kids worryingly asking what if we accidentally pee in the person's mouth.
Not possible. I dont have a fancy answer but from I remember in science class, the pipe that controls pee is sealed off and the pipe for semen is whats opened. You can't have both open at the same time. Correct me if I'm wrong anyone in this thread.
 

AliceAmber

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May 2, 2018
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It's actually not, and I keep mine trimmed even knowing that. Pubic hair keeps the chance of infections lower, as bare can cause chafing and the hair traps bacteria away from the body.

Washing every day with a feminine hygiene soap (never regular soap) is enough to stay clean.

Mindblowing bonus fact: douches are actually dangerous. They introduce bacteria into the body and wash out all the natural things that keep vaginas healthy.

Feminine hygiene soap is a great suggestion I'll do that. Thank you!
 

Nothing Loud

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Oct 25, 2017
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So it sounds like this more like an introduction to female genitals and reproduction than what I was expecting, which is a thread with common sex questions and importantly knowledge on both male and female anatomy and straight/gay intercourse. I suppose the former is fine, I just think the thread title and intro could be clearer.

Good job on explaining the female anatomy, though.
 
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Fiction

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Oct 25, 2017
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Elf Tower, New Mexico
So it sounds like this more like an introduction to female genitals and reproduction than what I was expecting, which is a thread with common sex questions and importantly knowledge on both male and female anatomy and straight/gay intercourse. I suppose the former is fine, I just think the thread title and intro could be clearer.

Good job on explaining the female anatomy, though.

Any questions are welcome, I just started with the most common thing I usually have to address on the forum. Anyone can make a similar post for men, gay sex, etc, and I'll link it in the OP.

As a straight, cis woman I don't feel I have the authority or knowledge to speak as much on other subjects.
 

Daitokuji

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Oct 27, 2017
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How is it still unknown what is in squirt juice? It's almost 2019. They've never had a woman squirt, put it in a cup and analyse it in a lab?
 

ObbyDent

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Oct 27, 2017
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I've always thought that I've been circumcised, but my mom swears that I never was. but I do know that when looking at circumcised versus uncircumcised, my dick more closely resembles a circumcised one. So does that mean I just don't have a lot of foreskin? Because I do have a bit more than a circumcised penis but nowhere near a normal amount.
 

RatskyWatsky

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Oct 25, 2017
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I've always thought that I've been circumcised, but my mom swears that I never was. but I do know that when looking at circumcised versus uncircumcised, my dick more closely resembles a circumcised one. So does that mean I just don't have a lot of foreskin? Because I do have a bit more than a circumcised penis but nowhere near a normal amount.

Yes. Not all uncircumcised people have the same amount of foreskin. Some foreskins are naturally very long and look like anteater noses and some are barely noticeable. Everyone is different!
 
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As a child, I remember asking, "Who came up with the idea of sex to reproduce?"

A girl in my class answered, "Jesus."
 

Dennis8K

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Oct 25, 2017
20,161
Hello everyone, it's time for another episode of Sex Ed with Fiction. For years and years I've been educating folks in various threads about the female anatomy, sex in general, and answering questions. I finally was convinced to make an actual thread. Any and all questions are welcome. Don't be embarrassed, we all know how the education system in America failed in this regard.

First, let's start with the basics:

The female reproductive system:
2Pt7Qfe.png


I'm sure everyone has seen something like this, but it's good to refresh.

Sidenote: the endometrium is what causes periods. It prepares for pregnancy every month. Fills with extra blood and tissue to nourish a growing embryo. When an egg isn't implanted in that 'nest', all of that work sloughs off and gets flushed out.


But that diagram does not really tell you much does it? It seems a lot of people think the clitoris would be shown there.

But no. The key to (most) female pleasure is not even in the vagina.

vagina-anatomy-outer.jpg

129089-128300.jpg


Remember that porn is unrealistic. Your size compared to them is fine. In fact, too long can be super painful. Anyone who learns to use foreplay can please most women.

Advice: be gentle with the clitoris my dudes, especially at first. Go harder if she wants. The key is consistency. Find a pattern she likes, and keep doing it. Usually circling around the clit will be a good way to start things off. If her breathing gets whiny and reedy, keep doing exactly what you are doing. Don't press harder unless she asks.

And now, I open the floor to questions. Anyone can answer questions too, just make sure you are not spreading misinformation.
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Will there be a test?
 
Oct 27, 2017
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When a veiled sarcastic comment leads to the creation of a useful thread. Low key tip for everyone in the thread: The key to having good sex is actually talking about sex with the person you're having sex with, while generalizations can be useful people are individuals and what works for one person doesn't work for all of them.
 

Not Asleep

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Oct 25, 2017
538
Great thread topic!!!!

For women is it more hygienic to keep pubes at least trimmed?

Nope. It looks "neater" to some but there are exceedingly few reasons to mess with pubic hair except for aesthetic reasons. (Maybe if you were prone to tangles, it's easier to keep it shorter?) Shaving/waxing is actually less hygienic than having a full bush. Trimming a little length (as opposed to a lot) doesn't make a difference, hygiene-wise.
 
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Fiction

Fanthropologist
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Oct 25, 2017
6,729
Elf Tower, New Mexico
When a veiled sarcastic comment leads to the creation of a useful thread. Low key tip for everyone in the thread: The key to having good sex is actually talking about sex with the person you're having sex with, while generalizations can be useful people are individuals and what works for one person doesn't work for all of them.

Added to the OP because I didn't explicitly say that. Thanks!
 

lucebuce

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Oct 25, 2017
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Does the innie/outie/hybrid vagina make any difference or is it purely just a visual difference?
 
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How pleasurable is nipple sucking really?
Depends on how sensitive the persons nipples are? I've known women who really like it, including light biting etc, and others for whom it does nothing. It doesn't do anything for me personally but I've been tainted by decades of toxic masculinity so it just feels weird to have it done to me.
 

Titik

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Oct 25, 2017
7,490
I'm gay with a very active sex life. Ask away if you're curious about anything gay male sex related.
 

Spinluck

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Oct 26, 2017
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It's honestly depends. For me, I sometimes feel like I could climax from that alone.

For some women, it's not a thing at all.

So play it by ear.

Yeah my previous partner would enjoy when I would play with them in tandem and while she went to town with her vibrator.

It was pretty awesome. Also encountered some who really don't seem to care for it, good to know though.

Depends on how sensitive the persons nipples are? I've known women who really like it, including light biting etc, and others for whom it does nothing. It doesn't do anything for me personally but I've been tainted by decades of toxic masculinity so it just feels weird to have it done to me.

I enjoy it so usually I like when my partner is into it since I like it.

And by toxic masculinity do you mean forms of neglect during sex or selfish sex? My last partner sometimes said she didn't feel worthy of what I would give her in bed (foreplay, going down on her, etc) and she was coming off a pretty bad relationship. At the time I didn't really put the two together and thought I was doing something wrong.
 

Titik

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Oct 25, 2017
7,490
Oh yeah I love niople play. Sometimes. It entirely depends on the chemistry of the person I'm with. Sometimes I love to give it alot. Sometimes I don't. Again it entirely depends. Some people are wired for it though.
 

SinkFla

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Oct 26, 2017
9,437
Pensacola, Fl
When I was little I would sneak in a viewing of softcore Shotime porno and afterwards for a few years until sex ed in school, I thought the penis went in the belly button. Thanks, premium channel TV.